Hey wassup guys,

Let me introduce myself: my name is Twigg, I'm a 20 year-old university student from Belgium.

I got into the game about a year ago, when a friend lend me his copy of "the Game", by Neil Strauss. I read the book, but didn't really have the balls to practice the material.
But I'm very fascinated about this underground community, and I really want to be part of it. I have never been that good with girls (I'm always the friend, never the boyfriend), now it's time to set things right!

A little bit background information about myself:

As far as I can judge myself, I'm a pretty handsome dude. I do have some complexes about my height and figure. I'm not that tall (about 1.70m) and pretty skinny (I can eat all that I want, it doesn't do shit... that explains the nickname). But enough nagging about the looks...

My main problem is my Approach Anxiety. I can be a really fun guy, once girls get to know me better. In the beginning, I'm always the shy one, afraid to say something stupid. And even if I know the girl is interested in me, I'm too scared to take initiative and eventually our "connection" bleeds to death...

I never had a real girlfriend. The closest I've been to a relationship was in primary school: we both knew we liked eachother (I wrote her like loveletters and shit), but none of us dared to to take initiative... of course, all these years later, she has become the hottest chick I've ever seen. fuck my life :p

I did kiss a girl (twice) in a club, but we were both pretty wasted, I don't know if that counts :p

So now I'm dedicated to correct my mistakes and show them girls the real me, that has been hidden behind these walls of fear all these years.
I'm the new knight in town, and with my dick as my sword, I will fuck them dragons until I reach my true princess... Of course, with the help of my new friends/partners in crime on this forum

Thanks for taking the time to read the story of my life!

Signing out,

Twigg

Funny to hear that you have almost the same story as me

Welcome on the forums, been here since today as well!

-Q

Thanks for the reply man, and welcome to you too! It's very encouraging for me to hear that people can relate to my "problems"

Tell me, what are the similarities between us? short? skinny? shy? AA? and how do you handle them?

Wow...just wow guys with that kind of self-confidence are truly heroes to me. Thanks for the video, it's very motivating and contains some inspiring quotes too.

I will try my best to "loosen up" bit by bit, and I hope I will be as confident as these guys one day. I just need to get this bad, shy attitude out of my head.

Girls like spontaneous, crazy and adventurous guys, right? I just need to stop thinking and worrying so fucking much. If a courageous girl started talking to me in a club, that would totally make MY evening. And, keeping in mind that men and woman are no so different as I always thought they were, then it would make HER evening if I started talking to her, isn't it?

I know all these things in theory, but it's the practice that's killing me...

Welcome aboard! I too was in your situation when I was younger, I was always a little chubby and short. I grew out of the Chubby and Short, but the affect it had on me stuck with me for decades! Keep pushing yourself and all will come together for you!


Peace...

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All girl's are Freaks...It is your job to bring it out in them! - Crypto

You need to stop bending over and letting her ass fuck your brain! - Heywood

I'm the same, i watched the video and was totally blown away.

Even then I felt extremely uncomfortable and embarassed with the failed attempts....Me, and the guy's are like...whatever.

I think i did more harm by watching the video, now instead of approaching I'd be thinking of the girl who got up from the grass and left him there...

Oh shit!

I wish i could have the playful attitude of those guy's, I guess I'll have to work harder on that.

Man..why did I have to watch that video........

I totally feel you bro. We just don't have that "I don't give a fuck what everyone else thinks"-attitude...yet :p

We'll just have to accept the fact that we will get rejected lots and lots of times... This idea scares the shit out of me too, but I guess the more we'll get rejected, the less it will hurt us...

Haha, that's class.

Anyway, welcome to the forum I recommend reading the stickies at the top of the "Introduce Yourself" forum, including the Rules, and the Worthwhile Threads sticky is amazing! Also read The Game if you haven't already, and try the Newbie Mission.

Anyways, welcome and good luck Don't be afraid to ask if you have any questions.