My friend invited me to her Boyfriend's Birthday party that’s happening this Friday. I know the boyfriend but, not that well. So I had no clue what kinda ppl would be there but I checked the facebook events and the confirmed guest list have alot of women. Some are ok others are like really hot. So I decided I wanted to try to get a girl there.

I went through the list and I noticed I was friends with like 4 girls and 2 guys that were going and
Out of the 4 girls 2 are really hot girls and 1 of the guys was a guitarist of a Canadian rock band that never got famous but opened for bigger rock bands across North America. The one he was most proud of was opening for the band Rise Against. So I want to use them to build up my social proof before any approaches.

so the problems I have though are the fallowing

the girls and guys that know me. Know me really well they have been my friends most of my life and they all even witness my most AFC days my Teenage life .. I mean like Yu Gi Oh cards in the high school cafeteria, I joined the Fantasy games club some guy started in my high school days and we played magic the gathering and D&D and warhammer. I couldn’t even look at most girls in the eyes unless I met them through other ppl. I was the biggest dork ever in high school

and I’m new to the PUA community. So I’m still in the fake it part of the Fake it till you make it thing if I run canned routines then I’ll come off completely incongruent and it’ll blow me out cause I know my friends will contradict me if something’s are said.

So any suggestions of how I can incorporate my friends into my game without making myself appear totally incongruent?

And also I study the Mystery Method stuff mostly and bits of RSD. So I was wondering if I use the Mystery method if I want to bounce a target in a house party where can I move to get to a comfort building location. The house is in the suburbs so I can’t really take the target anywhere. So what parts of a house can do that so it won’t creep the girl out but mostly secluded for comfort material

and add in any tips, routines you can think of for being in a party situation thanks a lot in advance

I think your putting too importance on it, dont worry so much, just go with the flow. And if there are way more girls than guys your already on to a winner. You know enough people their so you bounce from group to group, so you meet as many girls as possible. You say you used to play warhammer and collect cards, but thats in the past, let them know that your not a dork anymore and you've grown into a real man (or lad), everybody changes. If you like jus use this to better your game and get the digits.

Just because they said they were going on Facebook, does not mean they will be there. Go there with an open mind, no expectations. Have a good time, and enjoy the company.

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Thanks. I'll try and relax and I'm still kind of dorky just not as bad or open about it. I kind of separated my normal life form the dork life which I do indulge in from time to time


you mean the hot girls I don’t know or my friends that will be there? The hot girls even if some don’t show there was a large confirm list so it don’t matter if some don’t show it won’t matter at all but If you mean my friends they will be there for sure. I’ve never seen them flake or ditch on a friend when they promised to go somewhere in the years I’ve known them short of a family emergency.

I'm just saying, usually on Facebook events most people just say attending for the hell of it. I don't know who will or won't show up, I'm just saying don't bank on some hotties you saw in the attending list to show up.

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The hottest ginger you'll ever meet.

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ok cool gotcha

well assuming they do go got any suggestions on things I could/should do?

if the house got some sort of patio or anything of the sort, that should be a good place to bounce a girl at a party, this place is quiet and more private for further comfort building and stuff, if no patio just go check out the backyard with her, unless its a creepy jungle type of backyards..