All were highly selective off okcupid. Think I remember reading about online not being "in the field", but these weren't cyber lays but close and personal.
I'm not gonna place a number on the women. I can assure each were at least 7.5. I'll just point out the key details to help those reading.
Lay #1:
Sex on third date.
Lived about 35 miles away. First date she came to see me. Took her out for the first date, second date went to see her. All previous "dates", she came to my place.
Texted for about 2 weeks before first date.
On third date said she wanted to come over and just kick back, told me to get mixings for her favorite drink. She was actually a really cute Irish girl that could drink most guys under the table. So, I knew in that past five weeks dating and texting, I'd built enough attraction and where things were going. I'd kissed her on the first date, as I always do when I'm attracted to a woman, so all that resistance was out of the way.
Basically she came over, we drank, we screwed.
After drinking a bit we started kissing, things got passionate. So I knew, from experience, where things were going. She threw up some poor excuse for LMR, to which I just started kissing her neck, moved in back of her, grabbed them 38 D cups, and then started kissing her back. She just needed a little motivation.
Last thing I said, "we should go down stairs.". Last thing I remember before the fireworks is her putting her drink on my dresser, smiling, and saying, "I'm gonna screw you". We were both tipsy, jumped on the bed, and the top mattress slid off. We didn't care. Just kept going......
Pretty damn good.... She kept putting her hands against the wall, thrusting down, so I was grabbing her back, kissing her, and hanging on for the ride!
Moral: some girls just need to get into it before we go in for the kill! She was down, but threw up LMR for two reasons:
1) not passionate, but not physically feeling it yet.
2) Wanted to make me work for it. Didn't want to be a slut.
Lay#2
Another "selective" cupid girl:
About three years younger than me. Very cute raven haired girl with gorgeous blue eyes, and colored highlights.
Didn't spend as much time gaming this woman. Met on Cupid, spent about three four days texting before meeting up. She had asked me to come over and see her about two nights before we actually met up. I wanted to play hard to get. Told her I'd love to, but was busy with work.
She was very chatty with me, proposing all these dates we should go on.
About the fourth night of texting, after meeting on cupid she asked me to come over. I accepted.
The first thing that helped here is I did something simple, that really helped ease the pressure of going over to a strange ladies house at 10PM in the evening. Simple, brought some good pizza and two beers! Why only two beers??? It gave the impression I just wanted to chill and talk, not get smashed and fuck.
We talked, ate pizza, and drank two corona's on her couch while watching Supernatural. I decided to probe and see if I could get things in a more sexual direction.
I asked, "who's hotter, Sam or Dean?". She said, Sam, I love his shaggy haircut. I also, have a similar haircut, I took this as IOI #1. I then smiled, petted her hair, and said, "i like pretty long black hair with colored highlights" She laid back and told me she loved it when people played with her hair. IOI #2
About 10mins later she mention something about not being not able to have kids, and hated using condoms. Things were looking really good here, and she started being even more forward. She then said come here, I've got to show you this shirt I got, it reminded me of you. She was wearing a shirt that read, "great catch" on the back. I said, aren't you wearing it???? "Great catch, right?".
We walked into her bedroom. IoI number 3! She could've brought the shirt out from her room to me. So I took this as the third IoI. She showed me the shirt. As she looked down to fold it up... I put my finger under her chin, and gently lifted it up, and said, "keep your head up girl" and kissed her.
Kissing got passionate, but she was purposefully standing close to me so I couldn't go for the silver or gold!
We kept kissing. Went to her bed and took her shirt half off, then started rubbing her breasts. She was obviously turned on. She remarked, "I'm gonna resist, as hard as it is".
I used Mystery's freeze technique. Pulled away, grabbed the remote and turned her bedroom tv on and kicked back. THen said. "that's cool let's watch tv. She put her arm around me and said, ok.
We watched tv for about 10mins then went out to smoke. I told her she was cute as hell when she smiled, and I could look into her blue eyes for a long time to come. She kinda duped me. We both changed our facebook status to "Seeing someone" and got busy... So I also got a gf for about two weeks. She was cute, so it was cool with me.
So... in this case the freeze out, combined with a little flattery and commitment is what she needed to overcome LMR.
Lay #3:
This was while I was going out with the raven haired girl.
One day, my raven haired (then) gf had to go to the airport to pick her friend up. While she was there I started texting a blonde I had met off cupid just before her. Things got kinda sexual in the texting, and she sent me boobie pic.
Unfortunately, as sexy as she was, my raven haired gf was a busy student and I was getting bored. She made me delete all my online accounts (she was that cute and worth it for a time). I got bored and was texting the blonde I had re-intitated contact with a few days earlier while my gf was at the airport.
Used the line, "come over and drink with me!".
All day we were texting details about the meetup, directions and addresses and stuff. I waited about 1 1/2 hours for her. Surprisingly she showed up!
As the pizza guy was at the door, she walked up. I said to both of them, a pizza and a cute blonde! This is a good night! They both kind of chuckled.
She brought rum and coke, I also had a bottle of JD and 80 whiskey at my place.
We ate pizza and talked. Then started drinking.
This lady was a few years older than me, and also, a bit more experienced in bed. (more on that later
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I stood up from the bar and she followed, grabbing my shoulder to help herself up. She made physical contact, I took that as IoI #1.
We went out on my deck and had a smoke. I noticed whenever I'd tell a joke, or when she'd talk to me, she'd ALWAYS smile and laugh. Took that as IOI #2.
We sat down to watch tv. I had Public Enemies on DVD. We got about 15minutes into it. Then I kissed her. I probably jumped the gun here. BUT I was running out of lines, and it was starting to get into boring movie date mode. :-/
I could tell by the way she kissed where things were going. I then said, I think we better go down stairs. We spent about an hour with foreplay. When I said, "we can only mess around, I don't have any condoms.". "I don't go out and buy them just because a pretty girl is coming over.".
She started giving me a blow job, and rubbing her tits on me. I said looks like someone's turned on.... Then told her to hold on for a sec.... Went to my bathroom and grabbed a jimmy.... Walked back in my bedroom and said, looks like you're getting lucky tonight.
We kissed for a while. She slipped the jimmy on and we went to work. There's something to be said for a woman who can get on top and a guy just needs to lay there in sheer pleasure! She was the best lay I've ever had!
Had to break up with my gf after that, tho. Just felt too guilty.....
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