I know this is long but this is for me. If someone finds it useful great. I want to put my thoughts down while I am on roll.

The subject is an understatement. I'm pulling girls like there is no tomorrow. Women on the internet that I message are either not interested or give or take. The only times I'm successful on the internet is if they come to me and I ljbf them and tell them the shit that's going on in my life. Which isn't even much except girls I'm pulling.

approaches. I get the number. Go home... dead. I just don't know. I don't give a fuck about phone game. Just being complete.

Real life. Women I see and meet day to day. I'm getting looks. Staredowns, grabs. Texts. It's just on. From all directions.

They way I am doing it is momentum. These are all girls that I've gamed in the past or knew personally. Even some I have been bumping into lately. If I hit on women they go quiet and give me this look. Like they freeze up. It's almost like they are the ones that get approach anxiety. The female equivalent, lets name it "female approached anxiety." If I just keep my cool. Not even that. If I just act natural and be my true self. Feeling good and generally amusing myself. Asking questions that genuinely interest me. The way I am going about it is that if I see them regularly then why hit on them. There is none of that at all. If I show interest it's a love for women. It can be sexual but it's good clean fun. Dirty if it's funny. A vibe. A feel good vibe. I use no DHV except tell them how good I feel. And that I try to see the positive in things. I tell them straight up that I am a social guy and that women like me. I wouldn't suggest that if you are targeting a single girl. Since I accept most women that I find attractive It's good to be straight up. In fact it is better to say DLV to them in a positive way, slip in past them so it doesn't haunt you in the future. You know things they will find out anyway. Especially if you didn't hit on them before telling them and it was more matter of fact. Say. "No that's totally cool I do {DLV} as well". Then quickly make it positive. And be unaffected. Nothing matters because you are just a social guy. Happy and content.

Its like you just have friends that happen to be girls. You are this social, high value male who likes women. Period. You do what you do because you know you can.

NOTHING NEEDS TO BE SAID if you do it right. You'll find women will say.

"Hey, add me on facebook sometime."

Then from facebook, I'd say, 5 minutes of chat. Fluff, anything because at this point they are like. "fuck, why is this guy so different. I know he likes me. I know he's not afraid. Why do I have to make the move."

So SHE'LL shoot out...
"hey it's easier to text. 555-5555"

then after a few texts. SHE SAYS
"Hey let's meet up sometime."

but they don't blatantly hit on me. It's all friendly. It's almost like they are at battle with their ASD. hahahaha. They want to escalate but they are sweating to find a way how.

Of course I know what it going on. They are the ones gaming me.
The tables have turned because I legit have great social skills and although I might not get laid every time I want. There is always a woman who likes to chat with me. Who enjoys my company. I need nothing from any of them. At the moment I can't even remember the last time I got laid. I'm kissing them like mad. They are making all the moves to meet up and if I am alone with them and the mood strikes me I kiss them.

How I kiss them is I continue to act the same. Sometimes slowing myself down to relax or to feel good. Or excited if need be. I do what the situation warrants. I look at her body language. I guess you NLP guys could guide her into the right body language which just caused me to completely understand why it's so powerful. But anyway I let it happen naturally. I just look at her and I think. Damn she's just laying there all sexual. Like you'd imagine a mermaid laying on a rock waiting to be swept away in your arms. Or a model. Or the painting on titanic. That kinda wispy idk. Just think what's going on in her head. Sometimes ... a lot of times they say, shut up and kiss me. Especially the odd times I actually get in my head and try and pull some routine made up on the spot.

Anyway when they have that type of body language I just pretty much grab them and kiss them. Single peck. Don't get technical on this shit. I'm literally just doing what ever I want. I think it feels cool to just grab her hair, kiss her a few times. Let go and continue talking. So I do it. If they show me a nice thigh, wow you have nice legs. Grab the leg. If she pulls away. I do the exact same thing I would have done after anyway. Continue with the convo. You can say whatever as long as you are not chode.

100% it's reading body language. That's why it doesn't work on the internet.

The reason I can just grab and kiss is because that is why she arranged for us to be alone. These are women's pick up techniques. I wouldn't just grab and kiss a woman I had no momentum with. Letting them make half the moves is a great way to be sure of escalation. She appears for a kiss and I take it. She pulls away, so do I. Like rhythm.

For dates. It's summer here in Canada. The beach, park. Costs as little as water and ice cream. Also it's enjoyable for both of us. Anywhere really. She is there for the interaction. That guy who is interesting and different. That guy who lets loose and expresses himself.

If they ask me: "Where do you want to go next?"

I say. "I want to go {place} next. If you don't want to go there then you pick" It's more normal... This is all natural, there is no PUA involved except the core principle of never choding out.

I'm not afraid to be AFC because at my core I am not one. I have so much momentum and I feel good that it's the furthest thing from my mind. Me acting AFC seems so fake they would just laugh punch my arm. Suddenly it's romantic. Because I'm a man. Not a boy.

Shit tests. I for real, 100% legit don't give a flying crap if she takes me or leaves me. Why is she shit testing me to begin with? I'm not hitting on her. There is no pick up. It doesn't exist. I'm just a dude that gets laid. No games. No B.S. No need for any of that. I'm not even on that wavelength. I'm this positive magnet.

Watch the secret if someone's interested in how to use the power of the mind to simply attract what you want because that is actually where I started and I took the movie seriously even though it's spiritual in nature. It works for reasons that are psychological.

All in all, it's the power of my mind that I don't even allow an AFC thought into my head. Like others say.. abundance.

If you want anything. Not just women. Clean the cobwebs out of your head and start planting the seeds of success. Each thought builds into the next and creates a momentum. Approach all problems from the perspective of being grounded. Down to earth, powerful. If you have your shit together internally. Everything else will fall into place naturally.

If you notice a sticking point. Other than if you went home, hid in your basement and messaged her trying to "pick her up" meanwhile she's thinking: "wft? Why'd he trying to pick me up when he already did. I gave him my damn number."
Idk. That's not even it. It just doesn't work that way unless you are brad pitt or something. Maybe there is something I am missing there but I don't care because I'm not banging my computer or a phone. It didn't exist in cave man times so she isn't even wired for that kind of interaction unless she can remember you vividly enough from the impression you made earlier. One on one mano a womano is the only thing that is true attraction building. Text and email, phone is down time.. A take away so to speak. It will remind them of you. Build comfort that you are in their lives but no attraction. Unless she texts you horny and wants some phone play.

I'm all over the place but back to the sticking points. It's in your fucking head. There is no sticking points. She is just one girl. The momentum doesn't come from success. It comes from the success and failures. AND the failures or successes are HER push and pulls. If you knew her long enough. Years. Almost no matter what; Handle the ups and downs properly, catch her when she is horny and BAM. She's down. Why wouldn't she be? When the doh does her mating call and a buck come ripping out of the woods, fights off the competition. does his manly display.. do you really think she is going to turn him down? Why would she? She's in heat. He's a strong buck, he past the tests. Why not? Unless he starts whining like a bitch and licking her. Even then, he's there she's in heat she might just do it. (cough cough buyers remorse)

Really what those sticking points are is actually being stuck on what happens. When I get rejected I'm not stuck, I have plenty of options.

So my new style is no hitting on them. No MM,

Yeah, this is my style but you need to make the move at some point and you need to get sexually aggressive or your not going to get laid. Women only advance so far before they turn back more often than not. So you need to start making more moves.

I consider myself attractive at all times, and I show that through my body language as well as other ways but the point is to just be the fun guy attracting attention.

After that you recognize their attraction and advance at the proper response curve, this means opening a conversation in a neutral manner(body shouldn't fully face them).

You escalate to touch naturally and allow the courtship process to take it's natural course. All you do is respond according to the woman's response curve.

It's a simple process but know this you must reciprocate the passion and intimacy at some point. You are taking a sissy way out in some ways, I've been exactly what you are saying, trust me it's not cool to kiss 100 girls and not fuck any unless you avoid sex by your choice. It's best to kiss 10 and fuck all 10 because there is a mutual interest, not because you settle.

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Well this method is perfect for me because if I get a woman alone. It's in the bag. I have never had a problem with the seduction aspect. I didn't include that part because for me it's simple. I'll include it for completeness. Some guys have no clue.

It's a matter of progressing to either spooning, cuddling, spending the night, watching a movie. Anything just get them alone. Make moves not because you are trying to seduce them. Instead you enjoy the moment with them until one thing leads to another.

I escalate alot in seduction. Like most men I genuinely enjoy fooling around with women. If they are uncomfortable with a move I make, I quickly move to something that they are comfortable with. That we both enjoy.

It's better to attempt to escalate and draw back if she resists than to sit there making out for hours.

Some women it's a long drawn out process. Kiss... take off shirt... kiss... open a pants button... kiss... open another.

LMR kicks in usually if you touch her belt, pants button, panties ect.

I have a girl knocking at my door now and this is the plan heheh gtg

My point was you said you haven't been laid in forever so you aren't closing bro. Say all you want about seduction you aren't practicing any of it.

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I meant more so it's a blur. I have regular girls. It's still been a few weeks because I'm trying to stick with my new years resolution and go for quality girls. Especially to avoid girls with boyfriends. I can get laid tomorrow if I decide to break that resolution. An old fling will be in town and she's noticed the girls I'm pulling. She wants to meet up at a baseball park beside where she's drinking. Meaning she wants to sneak off for some fun so her friends don't know what she is up to. There's another girl in town who shot me some signals saying she's in town for a few days and she hopes to see me around. But again this one is married. I've never banged a married woman.

Another obstacle I have is a young son. His mother is a deadbeat. It's hard to make arrangements with women and find a baby sitter ect.

Tonight was a no go. She had her period. Happened on my last date too with another girl. I could tell it was legit and I had a great night all the same. She seems more like she is interested in a relationship. Where as the others are looking for a piece of ass. She calls me hun. Texts me good morning xoxo everyday. I kind of like the idea.

See my problem is not sex, it's finding a gf. I think the girl I was with today will inevitably be that girl. She treats me like her bf. She says that I can see other women but that she will only be with me. I believe her too. She is that kind of girl. Hence why I wouldn't mind dating her.

I tend to go on spree's. Where I have so many I can't keep up then lose them all go get more, then the old ones come back. There is a momentum to it. It builds and builds slowly. I have to work to get it started. Pretty much getting my inner self in order. Doing away with neediness. It's a true belief that I attract what ever I want and that my social skill set is all I need. The ability to talk to anyone. I pretty much say hello to every person I meet.

It's almost like women just magically know. I know that sounds weird but I could be feeling bad or needy and they are snappy with me. Cold. Or I'm in abundance and they come and find me. Like the universe has either blessed me or it hasn't. And when it hasn't I have to change how I think.

I'm trying to take note of how I think so I can recreate it later. Last time I was on a roll I left myself a message and it was "inner frame".

Yeah, I know what you mean, it's difficult to learn to take that frame everywhere you go and tap into it at your liking. I will say it's time for you to escalate more though, I am a firm believer in having so much sexual tension that the sex is unavoidable. Period, timing, everything makes way for it if you do seduction right they want sex tons more than you do.

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I had the best sex of my life last night. She was on her way to my house but my family was home. I wanted to get her alone. So, I waited for her her to pull in my drive way and got in her car, I said: "Let's just go for a drive". Normally we talk all the time but this time we were quiet listening to music driving around. I picked up on her vibe that it was on since she was nervous and quiet. When she did talk she was excited, very high energy. She was nervous.

I played it cool for a bit, kept quiet. Then when it seemed she'd calmed down I said: "Can you drive distracted". I started kissing her neck. Rubbing her leg. She'd dressed up nice for me, short skirt and sexy panties. So I knew it was on. At one point she grabbed my arm and stopped me. I chuckled then I went back to listening to the music. I completely disengaged her until she reengaged contact by grabbing my hand.

Then we were fluff talking and what not, holding hands. She drove to a secluded area and parked. We got out, enjoyed the fresh air for a bit. Once we got back in the car, it was on again. I don't know how we started kissing, it's automatic at this point because we've made out a lot on other "dates" (I don't date, I hang out) . What really changed the mood was when I licked her belly button. She seemed to just give in at that moment and relax. After that I stared kissing the creases of her legs. If you don't know what to do after that then you're on the wrong forum. lol.