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PostPosted: Sat Apr 21, 2012 4:53 am 
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If it is a set you can respond with something such as:

"Wow, someone put on their cranky pants this morning"
"OMG, is she always like this...How do you take her anywhere"
"I could tell you were the bossy one"
"Awwww cute, you remind me of my bratty little cousin"

Remember to keep smiling and make it playful (Much of the time the others in the group will agree in some way). If your approach was with a question opener, go right into your routine/question. Ex: I need an opinion about tattoos and noticed that you had a tattoo on your leg so I knew I would get a diverse range of answers from this group. Roll into your question...Neg/DHV/exit at your leisure.

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no crypto, again I disagree. Does that really work for you?


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Yeah I feel like it's better just to ignore her and walk away smiling, politely. It's hard stupid when other girls still might be interested. lol
I wouldn't even smile. You lower yourself further by smiling at something that wasn't funny. I wouldn't be polite either, she wasn't polite to you.

Don't lower yourself, if you're not treated how you would treat others then don't act happy and smiley. There's acting like it didn't emotionally effect you but then there's also letting people treat you like shit and you being happy with it.

Acting uneffected emotionally would be you not arguing or saying "you're such a bitch". It doesn't mean smile.

"go away"
Just walk off. Nothing to say, nothing to do.

I know this seems like a tiny tiny thing as there's no future between you 2 anyway, BUT if you carry this attitude I've described then it will help you greatly in other aspects.


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By calling her on it with a smile you are projecting "You don't phase me, because you have no value to me". The majority of the time I push right through the resistnace of one group member, if they are just a "True Bitch" you will never get beyond her and should eject yourself from the situation.

No method is fool proof...

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I once said something along the lines of:

(Act like you just got a chill, and rub your hands together as if trying to keep warm)

EQ: Whoa, did you feel that?

HB: No

EQ: I think it's your heart




If you didn't get it, it's just calling her cold in a joking way.


(Look at her and smirk and keep playful eye contact for a bit and just open another set while she's still looking, or just go back to your friends and play up that you're having a ridiculous amount of fun...She'll come back around)

It has to be playful as if you're genuinely not affected.


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If a girl asks you to leave, walking away with a smile and giving them a "Well, okay, was nice to meet you" , or "have a nice evening" or something, does not DLV in any way. All it shows is you're naturally a friendly person AND totally unaffected by her "rejection". This will actually be perceived as high value by whoever sees this.
I'm not quite sure who said this anymore, but I recall a PUA leaving sets like this quite often with a smile, and sometimes the girl that rejected him opens HIM afterwards, telling him she's sorry for behaving in such a bitchy way before and that she's having a bad evening and stuff.

Now do you think a thing like this will ever happen if you tell her to fuck off instead, or get mad in any way ? Éven if she's sorry, she would definitely avoid you afterwards.

Remember, even if trying to start interactions is perfectly legit, you "intrude" on a girls privacy by starting to talk to her, and of course she has the right to tell you she wants to be left alone.
As a rule of thumb, a girl rejecting you says something about the girl, not about you.

That said, of course this goes for "socially acceptable" rejections. If the girl starts hurling insults at you or getting loud, that's another story and should definitely not be answered with a smile or something.


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it sounds like that girl has sand in her vag and needs a spoon or shovel to get it out lol
That is very disrespectful and petty. You approached her, SHE has the right to determine whether or not you are worthy of her and her time. Got rejected? Deal with it.


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By calling her on it with a smile you are projecting "You don't phase me, because you have no value to me". The majority of the time I push right through the resistnace of one group member, if they are just a "True Bitch" you will never get beyond her and should eject yourself from the situation.

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Rejecting a guy doesn't make woman "a bitch". As long as rape is illegal (which it always will be) women are not to be treated as men's playthings and it is no man's the right to harass a woman beyond their comfort zone. Doing so makes you either a worthless b*stard or potentially a criminal.

When approaching a woman, THEY have the choice of either accepting or rejecting. A man takes a chance and there's no reason to get bitter for being unsuccesful.

I actually did expect more men here to LOVE women and the company of women. How can any man think they can love or make love to a woman unless there's mutual respect?


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I wish I could explain what I would do accurately. It's non verbal. Basically I'd give her this confused "wft" look. You want everyone to notice the dead silence. Let them see that you heard her perfectly well. Act like she is the one being weird. Maybe raise an eyebrow and give her a quick up and down. Nothing really needs to be said if done right. Then after a moments pause kinda shake your head or shrug your shoulders then turn your back to her and continue. More often than not she ends up being the one you'll go home with. I know that sounds crazy but for some weird reason it can happen.


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Heres my solution

but it does depend on the tone of her voice

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Girls do this shit all the time where I live. They are stone cold bitches here. I am not alone with that observation.

However, once again. Don't let that bother you.

I am also one who has a weakness, being unable to walk away from a "fight" without having the last word LMFAO.

"So I guess a blow job is out of the question?" sounds like something I would say in that situation. "Does she always behave like this?" to her friend can sometimes save the situation, or at least show other girls who may be watching that you got a laugh out of the girl you are talking to (her friend).

In fact, when I am insulted, my mind goes into hyperdrive and I ALWAYS have something sharp and stinging to say back to someone. It is a reflex.

I wish my day game reflexes were so sharp. I guess it stems from the fact my best friends and I used to rip on and verbally abuse the SHIT out of each other growing up, and you either learned how to dish it right back as a reflex, or you had to find new friends!

But yeah, don't let some cunt ruin your night because she can't have any fun herself. Hell, even if it happens 10 times in a night — don't give a shit. The Alpha Male doesn't give a fuck about it.


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