When I was 35, I joined the game, learned skills, took up bodybuilding, and I was pretty good. I got lots of numbers, dated only good-looking women, and I wasn't great but I was pretty satisfied with my game.

Then I got into a long-term relationship for 6 years. Which ended. So I thought, "I'll just get back out there and find someone new, my game is good."

So I went back out there doing the same things I had been doing. I don't look like a bodybuilder anymore, and I have some deep forehead wrinkles, but I didn't worry about that, because it's all about game, right?

And I've been nothing but shot down for months. Woman after woman. Not like 6 years ago, when "shot down" just meant a failure to get a number, or a failure to F-close. Now I get reactions of shock and disgust. Even from women who are way below my standard, who I open just for practice.

WTF? Was I successful just because of my muscles and youthful good looks, and is this whole "game" business bullshit?

Is it not just in you mind and your own map of how people are? Maybe it is in your desperate eyes or bad mood? How are you feeling with yourself, are you happy when you are out there sarging or are you getting negative thoughts all the time?

Maybe its congruence. You know, your older that means your game has to change. Deangelo talks about men getting stuck in the mindframe they were at their peak, but cool changes. If I had to say, I'd think it's that.


Plus if your gaming girls your age, they look for different things the older they get. I hear nice guys don't have as much trouble when their with older women.

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I'm the best.
And no I'm not positive, I'm definite.

I would advise coming in with females - demonstrate the preselection... also wear a suit or shirt and tie if you don't already to look more sucessful.
as people get older they naturally reflect on what they and others around them have achieved in life. Do with that in mind what you will... I'm only 20 but thats just my 2 cents.