I recently made a profile on Plenty of Fish and OKCupid. Ive been talking to a fairly decent number of girls on here. I havent gotten any that i would consider actually dating to express interest in meeting up yet though (granted ive only been on the site for 4 days).

I fully believe in shooting for the moon with every girl. They clearly like me though so Im wondering if any of you have any pointers on how to get the conversation real heated and make an agreement to meet each other for some NSA sex. I honestly dont think i could end up going out with them and "seducing them" the normal way. If we had a kinky conversation about things we would do to each other it would make me much more inclined to meet up with them.

Again, If you know how to do this and have done it in the past i would love to hear your advice.

go out with girls that dont seem prude from their profiles, now on the date bring up that kinky conversation you reference (with proper calibrating), or as I call it, initiate the sexual frame (ISF), and go from there, I've been successful f-closing a decent % in 2-4 hours.

I would not try to ISF via text and emails. You are likely going to get labeled as a creeper by the attractive, and discarded by all but the most desperate, old, and fat. Try it and let me know.

the exception may be if your great looking with chiseled abs and dumb as a rock, then the up front sexual play may be your best bet.

Hey man thanks for the advice. The problem I had when I posted that was really that none of the girls were attractive enough for me to even consider going out in public with. So I wanted to set up an immediate sex call with myself as an escort basically and no money. I'll definitely try what your saying on some of these dates im going to go on as in the time I posted that and now I've gotten some pretty attractive girls into me.

To make a long story short though I kept progressing with the ones I didn't find attractive enough and ended up getting one of them to send me nudie pics of her. After that I played a questions game with her which involved her asking if I would come over and have a 3 some with her roommate and asking if she she could swallow my cum. Same senario with another girl too but not nearly as dirty or having her want me to come over. I'll post details of this all up tomorrow I would say I discovered a little untapped secret within myself to get girls talking about some kinky shit right off the bat. If the basic method I used works with normal HBs I'll be dumbstruck. Not to mention actual girls i know and have a social circle with.

Again, thanks for the advice I'll post how the dates with the ISF go.

well you may want to either take them to a dive you would never normally go to where no one know you, or invite them over for "fine wine and a homade meal". Which is cheap wine, beer, shots, and take out.

I still wouldn't attempt to to try to get girls to hump without meeting up with them, if only briefly.

I think all girls relate DVD to sex, if they are maybe a 7-8 then add some vodka in to it..
As i live in shared accomodation and not allowed any birds back, Inviting them down to the beach for a cuddle + to see some fireworks has seemed to work for me though (i live in australia).
Only after speaking to them for a couple of days + they start to trust you, bring a big sheet or blanket down to the beach + lay it on the grass area, lay down + get straight to the point, tell her how peacful if is, grab her hand and wait for IOI's, when she asks where the fireworks are, kiss her straight away ect... then whisper i was talkin about us making fireworks.. Then finish her off !
-Deejay

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I think oldskools plan is pretty solid.

He is offering two things that even mediocre girls who are horney are normally going to require before having sex with you.
Plausible deniability. A modicum of non-sexual cover is provided
A little bit of comfort.

I think this goes a long way because it shows at least some effort even though you know its all about sex, and they really also know it, but you provided some cover. I think most guys who just want sex from off the internet screw up by not offering the girl any game whatsoever because she isn't hot. Hitting girls up with "whats up cutie lets meet up," and "your hot, come over for shots" is a fail, where as some minor effort would have made it work. A little effort goes a long way.

Although, again, if your super fit you can pull off the DTF move with 0 effort.

If I, say... just wanted SEX. Here's what I'd do:


Go on cupid.

Search by relationship status. Look for "separated".

Find the cute women that were treated like crap, and are cute with low self esteem.

Run my game.

Start getting kinda sexually flirty.

If she responds back in the same fashion.... IOI!

Close her!


that's kind of shallow, but can work. :-/