say im at a party and me and my friend whose also a newbie use the dental floss opener i have no clue where to go from there

plz help

im asking cause of a party this friday

-thx kilo

Sounds like you two need to get together and come up with which openers you all are going to use. What my wing and I did when I started out is we met before we went out sarging. I knew which 3-5 openers he would use and vice versa. That way it was repeated making each other look bad. If you need more openers search the site for some. There are lots of good ones on here.

Also, once you complete your openers you need to engage the obstacles and neg your target once the set "hooks" or has your attention. As your target then begins to show you IOIs or Indicators of Interest, you can now slowly show some interest back.

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thanks man
but say its just me and there r no obsticles just the target, should i just engage her, rather than ignoring[or paying little attenttion], and drop a neg while building comfort with a DHV story?
sorry im a little lost any help is appreciated

-kilo