sup guize,

would like to get some opinions, just got out of a relationship for the past 3 years, I used to be terrible at it all, but thanks to this site and hundreds(literally hundreds) of hours i've improved.

Now i think im little above average when it comes to attracting but find it a little hard to make any transition from there.

I've been focusing on what creates attraction mostly and touched the surface of body language. I've noticed by these how to read weather a girl is interested or not, and it has helped a bit, i've also been playing the "don't really care, laid back" type of approach.

But, im finding it a little difficult to put what i know into reality. I read a great piece of information not long ago that said "don't give a shit about the outcome" which opened my eyes a bit.

so any opinions wanted, would also like to hear if you have any relevant storys?

i reckon it's like anything you want to be good at, i mean if i want to land a new trick on the snowboard i can watch videos, read about the necessary body movements and what to avoid, but it simply comes down to actually doing it and failing. if you are good at learning by doing and can actually take something from your failures and aren't afraid to get outside of your comfort zone then you will have success with women. basically every time i go out i try to improve and get farther than i did before. if i don't, i won't beat myself up about it but i will analyze what happened and why. if things were out of my control then so be it, but if i missed an opportunity or made a mistake in an interaction then i will be conscious of that next time i go out. at first i couldn't even get numbers, i just didn't know what to do. now i aim to make out with a new girl every time i go out and i'm batting about 75%. next i aim to improve my game to the point where i can take girls home fairly consistently.
if you set incremental goals and actually go out and approach set after set you will get good and you will learn to transition, escalate and sexualize the situation.
i am by no means a master so please take what i say with a grain of salt, but i have felt huge improvement in myself over the last few months that i've been in learning from the community.

The best answer, and the answer you least want to hear, is to practice and get feedback. That's what these communities are for: so you can explain what you did, and get other people to break it down. There isn't really a big insight that's going to help you. It's not like LeBron James can read a book that will make him Michael Jordan.

Having said that, you might be able to get smaller insights by giving more detail about how a typical interaction goes. That will let you work on specific parts of yourself, to become a better and more attractive person.