Sometimes it's not even approach anxiety, just loneliness



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PostPosted: Mon May 14, 2012 7:20 am 
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I have a family that loves me and a handful of friends I talk to on a semi-frequent basis. Usually, I have no problem walking up to a girl and talking with her. But when I go out alone to game (2/3rds of the time due to limited alternatives) and get a few rejections, especially when I have no one to bounce off of, it hurts. Especially when I don't get a number and hop on a trolley full of genuine weirdos, and when I finally get home the room mate shuts his door as I walk in to be alone with his girlfriend.

Emo post, but learning game burns sometimes.


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PostPosted: Tue May 15, 2012 4:37 am 
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Dude rejection happens and its a thing that we all have experienced at one time or another. However how you handle this rejection will define who you are going to become. You need to learn from your experiences. What went wrong and how can you fix it. A much more productive post on these forums might have been a field report of your night. Allow people more experienced that you to critique and tell you how to be better. No one like a negative Nacy bro. Shape the fuck up.

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-BRAD[/b]


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PostPosted: Tue May 15, 2012 4:45 am 
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I did post a field report, just posted another one tonight. I'm putting myself out there, and I'm trying to learn from my mistakes. I know no one wants to read a sob story - just saying sometimes it sucks even when you're giving all you can.


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