HER PAST

Don’t think about it. Don’t mention it. Don’t bring it up. Don’t hint towards it. Don’t reference it. Don’t even think about thinking about it. Her past is one of those things that are better left where they belong – the past. Thinking about a girl’s past can ONLY have negative consequences. It might make you feel insecure, confused, helpless, but it’ll never do any good. She might have been sleeping around with a couple of guys before you, but it shouldn’t cheapen your view of her. Guys are trained to think this way because society wants to turn us into beta males without balls. Remember, most things in society work endlessly to EMASCULATE us. Beta males think about if their girlfriends were slutty before, because they are insecure about their OWN image. If she cheats on YOU, then she’s gone. If she cheated on a chump before you, it might have been more his fault than hers. Girls very RARELY cheat on Alpha Males, and you’re an Alpha Male.

Now, make sure you don’t take this advice to the extreme. If she’s an ex-serial killer or has cheated on the last 6 out of 7 boyfriends she’s had, you should probably still stay away. But for the most part, you shouldn’t stick your nose into her past. It won’t do you any good. TRUST ME, it will be better for you to just ignore it. Sometimes your girlfriend may ask you “Does that bother you?” That’s a test to see how confident and secure you are in yourself. Girls always throw these types of tests at their boyfriends, without consciously realizing it. Don’t say “yes” and try and use it as leverage in your relationship, it might make her feel bad, but it’ll lower her interest level, and damage her self-esteem among other things. You want to keep her on the edge always feeling like she has to get your attention and please you, but you don’t to bring down your girlfriends self-esteem. Don’t make her feel like she’s completely validated, and don’t make her feel rejected. Keep her in limbo. The more experience you have, the more you’ll realize how true this is.

Lastly, you might feel like this is “bottling up” your feelings. That’s bitch talk for acting like a man and having control over your emotions. Beta males snoop around their girlfriends past because they have huge fragile egos and constantly feel the need to “possess.” Alpha males don’t have egos. Think about how her past DIRECTLY affects you, it usually doesn’t. It just affects your mind, and your emotions. You are an alpha male, and you have complete control over your mind and thoughts. You are able to discipline yourself and your emotions obey you, not the other way around.

Good info. Your 5 girls trick does seem like it would help. I kinda get what you mean when you say don't let your guard down, but would you care to elaborate a bit? Thanks man