Hi!

I was wondering on your views on leaving small traces of that other women have been in your apartment earlier and if you do this how far does the traces go? For the good part it gives you value (you get other girls) but for the bad part you might take it to far and seem like a bad fucker, literally.

I have left, by accident, everything from hairpins(obviously not mine) to empty condom packages, and got caught by girls. But recently i started thinking if this is a good idea.. maybe i should be mor careful and clean more properly.

What do you think?

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Dont fight it, enjoy it..

lol the condom wrappers are a little much. A girls sweater would be a better choice. You don't need proof you are getting laid. Just proof there are women in your life. Women that are family can work as social proof.

The best pre-selection is seeing women having fun with you. that's a ten out of ten. Evidence of women works if that's all you have to work on, but she isn't necessarily pre-wired to be attracted to said evidence. It's a step in the right direction. Something I used to do that I haven't lately. Maybe I should.

Anything thing that shows show have women in your life and that women are comfortable around you can only be a good thing.

But at the same time some girls give hints that they dont like it.. still its only hints and they are coming back so i guess it works in my advantage..

How far do you guys think you can take this? what items and so on?

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I noticed this as well, when I was out with my sister (pretty good looking, not giving my sis a number) and a few of her friends I tend to actually get approached around once per two venues. Pretty great. Not really on-topic, can't say I've experienced with leaving girly stuff in my room. I do have candles and other girly shit which also conveys the message that I'm used to having females around.

I wouldn't as it may make the target feel like a slut. She may feel that you are just using her - that she is just another sex object. Of course, she may be, but, nevertheless, you want to make her feel a little special.

Also, you shouldn't need to leave women's clothing around. There are plenty of other ways to flick the pre-selection switch.

As the poster above mentioned, a nice pink jumper would be good.

The girls im trying to get for the moment are only fuckbuddies so in a way i want them to feel a bit slutty but off course i want them to be a bit special aswell and thats where the problem goes.

With girly stuff i mean hairpins and stuff that other girls left behind. Girls have come over and noticed it before i do and ask.. and i kind of vague say "its a friends or something". Usually it seems to be ok. Maybe this is because my approach usually is very forward and not caring to much. hmm..

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yea hairpins sounds OK I was only objecting to sexual items, such as condoms

Not worth all the trouble.

The thing is if she already decided to go to your apartment then im pretty sure shes already comfortable and attracted enough.

HOWEVER, if those were magnum condoms you were planning on leaving around then i say make sure she sees.

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haha they were magnum

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If she's already at your place you both know what she's there for, to have sex with you. So at this point it's irrelevant if the objects help you! The only thing that matters is if they could possibly hinder your chances. So even if 1% of girls you bring back decide not to sleep with you because of that (viewing themselves as a "slut") that's 1% to many.
There already at your place to have sex, get rid of anything that might change their mind.

James[/b]