| I actually learned this from a girl I was gaming last night...
I called her rude for not introducing herself, and when she did, she grabbed my hand to shake it jokingly, but I was confused as hell because I didn't expect the hand shake, so i shook her hand limply. Then she said "That was a horrible handshake! Let's try this again!" she walked away into the crowd, and I did the same and we acted like we just ran into each other again and introduced ourselves like we've never seen each other before and gave another handshake. To stay on top, I just said ".......I liked you better the first time we met" and then rolled off and she laughed, but the main point of this post is the "Let's try this again" type of neg. What I mean is if she doesn't do something right, or the way you like it, then just say "Let's try this again..." roll off, and then do the same action you just did. I'm gonna see if I can try it with an early kiss close and see if it works, because it may have to do with state breaks or whatever that NLP shit says.
You can do this on openers if they aren't really receptive to the opening at first IF YOU HAVE SOME ATTRACTION ALREADY BUILT (Preselection, when they're giving you that eye like they want you to approach, but then they're confused when you do, etc.)
You can do this on introductions, if she asks for your name during the set, just give your hand and jokingly introduce yourself formally and ask her what's her name, and when she goes to shake your hand, neg her on her hand shake and eye contact (can lead into body language/cold read convos) by saying "Oh my God, that handshake SUCKED!...Let's try this again..." walk away, and point behind her to signal to walk away too, and then walk jokingly like you don't see her, and then just say "Oh hey! What's your name?!" as if you've just spotted her/met her. Once that role playing gambit is done, you can say "That's better, goooood girl" and then break into a more serious convo about her body language or handshake, whatever the hell you want, just throwing out ideas here.
You can do this during kiss closes if you don't like the way she kisses
The options are endless.
Oh, and I realize this may not be something new, but just throwing things into the pool of attraction if you need some new shit or just haven't thought of this yet.
Try it out and report back! I'll try it out, but I can't promise on reporting back because I won't be near a computer in the near future...
Oh well, enjoy.
Cheers!
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