I will try the speed opener when I don't have a situational that I can come up with fast enough and see what happens.

I am sure the first three times will be painful (anxiety wise) and then I will forget about it. Everything I've done since being "newly singled" has caused me a twinge or more of AA but the more I work through it the more I don't give a shit and it starts to become natural again.

ONE thing I noticed very much about myself while in my previous relationship is that I went from being outgoing (which is not really "me" by nature, I have to force myself to interact, or at least get the ball rolling), back to my introverted self when it comes to social situations.

I had pretty much "settled in" — without giving up my friends and that side of my life as many people do — but certainly not going out and meeting new people on a regular basis, or even talking to random strangers (male or female) throughout the day.

That side of me has reversed itself as I find myself striking it up with strangers all the time now — just naturally, and being genuinely curious about new people and making new friends, opening up doors of opportunity, etc.

Can't wait to see where this will lead.

Heres some daygame openers, Compliments to Artisan

Ok, we've all been there....your out on your lunch break or just running some errands at the mall and suddenly you see this stunning brunette who could probably pass as a Jessica Alba look a like. And then suddenly it happens, your mind goes completely blank. You freeze up and can't think of a damn thing to say to her.

It's OK there is a solution.


In fact, meeting women during the day is SUPER EASY...that is, if you have a simple system, the right body language and voice tonality, and aren't afraid to "open".


So without further ado, here are my top ten day game openers:


WARM UPS

1. "Excuse me, do you know where Starbucks is?" (she answers) "Actually, I just thought you were cute I'm not even looking for Starbucks..."


2. "Hey cool X, (X=item of clothing, hairstyle, etc.), quick questions" (then ask a double ended questions).

Example: "Hey cool hair style, quick question...was that something you picked or did your hair stylist come up with it?"



INDIRECT:

3. "What's your take on meeting people (at the mall, in LA, in an elevator, etc), because my friend Dusty said people are way too stuck up for that, but you seem cool" (Credit: Vince Kelvin)


4. Cologne Opener (good for Victoria Secrets). Enter Victoria Secrets and ask for the men's cologne. Then spray one brand on one wrist and side of your neck and the other brand on the other wrist and other side of your neck. Approach a woman shopping (or a worker) and say, "Excuse me, do you consider yourself a woman of good taste?" (she answers) "Well I'm trying to decide on which cologne to get, what do you think of this one (hold out your wrist). OK and this one? (other wrist)" (she answers). "Interesting, now I heard that smell is also determined by where it is on your body. Does it smell different on my neck?" (let her lean in and smell it)


5. "You look like you need a glass of wine. Long day?" (Credit: James Marshall)


DIRECT:

6. "Excuse me, I need your help with something, lets say you are this (describe yourself) and your talking to this (describe her) what would you say if you wanted to flirt with her?"

She may respond with, "I don't know". Just say, "come on your a girl you're supposed to be good at this whole flirting thing. I've got nothing" (Credit: Robbie Krammer)

Example: "Excuse me, I need your help with something, lets say you are this pretty confident rocker looking guy wearing a hat, and your talking to this cute blond about 5'3" wearing a blue shirt, what would you say if you wanted to flirt with her?"

7. "Hey this is totally random, and maybe even a little cheesy, but you are too cute I had to at least say 'hi'"


8. "I noticed you all the way from over there and new I'd kick myself if I didn't come say 'hi'"


GIRLS THAT ARE SHOPPING:

9. In a retail store grab two woman's articles of clothing and say, "Excuse me, I need your opinion, this one (hold up one piece of clothing) or this one (hold up the other one)"? (she answers). "Really?? Because I thought this one brought out my eyes more "


10. "Definitely....hot. I like. But, I just don't think my mom will approve. You're not thinking about wearing them tonight..."


***BONUS:


MOTHER AND DAUGHTER

11. (Say to the mother) "Listen, I don't mean to be rude but you're sister is super cute and I wanted to totally inappropriately come say hi"


YOU'RE IN A HURRY OR SHE'S IN A HURRY

12. "Listen, I'm in a huge hurry but you are too damn cute....let's take a chance and exchange numbers and if you're totally cool on the phone, maybe we'll hang out"

Now, of course there's so much more to daygame than just opening, you want to bait the woman to chase you, demonstrate highly attractive attributes without bragging, give tons of value, close, set up a date, etc.......and honestly, you can read about how to do it, but what is that going to do?

That's like reading about working out without actually going to the gym.
So instead of wasting your resources on books and products.....why not take an actual hands on course that will teach you exactly how to approach and attract women during the day, give you instant feedback and perfect your approach, and give you ongoing support and motivation?
It's kind of a no brain actually.
so keep at it bro, happy gaming.

I like this last post. Good stuff. This whole thread is full of good stuff to use.

I keep getting more and more confident and open in general, so I am getting to the point of not having much AA and I've only been trying to get back into the scene for a month, and have very little free time to invest in sarging, etc.

Not to mention, there seems to be ZERO happening in terms of the local wingman scene, or PUA lairs in my town compared to when I was into this shit a few years ago.

Great post Dusty!