hey um i've been having a problem when i'm in the feild.

the conversations seem to just trial off and i got nothing.

anyone have anything to help me out like multiple conversational threads and how to actually make them??

Well i do it like this:

Me: "Hey, whant to see a magick trick?"
Her: "Sure"
Me"[Burst into laughter & and get the wtf look] Sry, its just that your ears wiggled just now, are u Croatian?(im Serbian so a near contry to me is Croatia), cause i have a friend with the same issue "
Her:"No, I'm Bosnian"
Me:" Lol, hell no u'r 2 funky 2 b Bosnian, are u lying to me?Are u like this to all your friends?"
Her:"Lol, I'm not lying"
Me:"omg I'm kiding, damit girl, stop bing so wierd and losen up, i can imagine u playing a game of chess with that atitude, u like chess dont u? "

Now, do u see wheres "the wana see a magic trick" ? The point is to have a 1-2 default thing's 2 say ( ears wiggle, and 2 funky 2 b Bosnian ) and the rest is observation with teasing and humor.The hard part is not to look 2 hyper active, u know always interupting etc. just patiently shut up and w8 4 the right moment 2 interupt, but u'l get that in time

so if you start a routine then neg and root it to something else you can then get good threads. even then it seem that the conversation is hanging off the negs.

is there some technique or something that you can do to find out what they would talk about without blantently saying it??

Well it depends.. when u open, multi thread would b, u leading the 10min conversation with neg+ 1-2default lines + observation coments and end up with the close. But later, u just need 2 losen up and start chating, i find this 1 working 4 me beter then 2 have a direct formula in my head and then in the midle wonder: "Where the fuck am I now??" ^^ But thats my take, would definetly like 2 hear the more experienced one's on this

that routine seems a little wordy and real specific to me

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Rave

Well that was me picking my brain, trying 2 find the patern I work with so i can explain but I'm sure multi treading comes from being comfortable in your own shoes, and knowing you have the right 2 b next to that girl. Ye, I c I'm probably not the best 2 talk 'bout this cause it prety much comes with no problem to me =/