Oke guys,

I posted a month ago about my friend-zone problem.
So I didn't tell her what I thought about her.

She went to her hometown for 2 weeks and I decided not to keep in contact as much or not at all till she came back. this was the advise you guys gave me. to take some steps back and wait if she wanted to keep in contact.

So i did, and she started talking to me a few days after she came back and decided to meet up. I phoned her when she was off to do something and she said she wanted to phone me. so we hung out, walked a lot and talked a lot. normally a telephone call is out of the question. and after this she phoned me a couple of times to ask where I was to maybe meet up for the weekend.

In the 2 weeks she was gone, I slept with 2 girls ( one night stands ) and got me distracted from her, which helped me. but now seeing her again, made me even like her more.

What is my next step? open up? explain what I feel ? I am getting tired of being to shy to talk what I really think of her, I mean she's a real nice girl. and don't want to wait so long and miss my chance, if I have not waited to long already!

( she hangs out with me a lot, I guess If a girl really didn't like me we wouldn't have 2 hour SPAM conversations and meeting up 2-3 a week)

She even asked me about if I would like to go to London with her, ( .... don't know, need some pro. advise.)

My friend said that I should spontaneously take her somewhere to go for a walk in the mountains, what she really likes and explain what I feel, because she is a serious type of girl.

Thanks

Don't fuckin tell her about how you feel about her. This would ruin everything. You need to watch less Hollywood movies and read more PUA material!
WTF??? You get advice like this if you post your question on femaleforum.com or asking an AFC friend. This is bullshit, and the worst thing you could do.

Answer a few questions:
-does she get jealous about these other girls you've been meeting, fucking? (does she even know about them)?
-is there any physical escalation? accidental touches maybe?
-is she single?
-does she tell you about her problems?

You have to give us more details so we can help better.

Until then, you go with her to London. You make a move on her. Alcohol and parties do help! Use physical escalation and if she reacts well, kiss her.

A kiss gets you out of the friendzone not stupid chit chatting in a mountaintop.

You have to make a move: You are gonna have to go all in... you either win a GF or you will ruin everything if it is not working out. You have to accept it.

But if you don't make a move on her, you are going deeper and deeper every single day into the friendzone.

Imagine how much you would regret not doing anything over the months, years and how you would feel if you saw her fucking other dudes as a result of you not having the balls to make a move on her. Be alpha, if you could fuck 2 girls in a week you have some game going on, you can do it!

Viel Glück

Thanks for awnsering. really, but the start of your email was a little insulting. I mean I get your point. but putting it like that is a bit harsh,

Yeah I got a little game going on, She talkes with me about her problems.
I will make my move soon, and it will a 1 time thing if It wont work out, because as you said ive waited to long already.

she doesnt know about the girls, I dont think she will like that, but dont know for sure. its better not to know. Im alloud to do everything and thats what I like at the moment,

Not having the balls is the problem, because I really like her, kinda dont want a possible rejection.... but I have to face it soon, and will be happy with the result of my action,

So I should make my move and find out like man.....

can you hit us back with an update? you might get more replies if you post this in the "relationships" section of the forum, that one seems to be more active.