This is going to be a on going challenge will not just happen once and you will gain the benefit. It's gonna be a habit once you master it over time(1month or 2).

Most people will be looking at a girl and when the girl makes eye contact with you, your eyes dart away. When your looking at a girl you never wanna be the one to break the eye contact. Women like to see a guy that holds the eye contact, she is gonna hold the eye contact to and then if she does she is instantly attracted to you. If you break the eye contact she is un-attracted to you right away. If she makes eye contact and she breaks away and then makes eye contact with you again that means she is attracted but means she is insecure. Girls like to see a guy that hold eye contact is shows that they have confidence and girls like that. This will build confidence over time. The eyes are a power thing on the human body. Wait for her to react and give her what she gives you. If she smiles give her a smile. If she says hi give her a hi.

If you guys have any questions or would like to add anything on this please let me know. I'm here to help and learn more.


The Koon

just don't be the creepy guy staring at a girl from across the room.


breaking eye contact doesn't really lower your value, build or lessen attraction. In some cases it can lower immediate negative feed back when paired with congruent confident body language and vocal tone.


In all social interactions people tend to seek to be around people of similar social stature, this tends to be true in personal, romantic, and professional interactions. it's very important to observe and properly calibrate to the person/ people your interacting with. being overly confident comes across as cocky or just over compensating neither of which are good things, on the other hand being too stand offish will make you seem weak.

mystery and a few others have talked about this eye contact thing and you'll find in practical application it bears a lot less impact than people have been led to believe.

Be aware off your body language as a whole as well as your vocal tone, calibrate both to the situation and the interaction. It IS good to be the dominate figure in the interaction but don't go over the top and don't think that breaking eye contact is going to have a major impact on you game or your success.

and for the love of god, if you make eye contact APPROACH! otherwise you are just the creepy guy staring from across the room and lets face it, no one likes that.



Best of luck

Vit-J

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yeah you would come off as a creep if you just stare without receiving any eye contact back.What i usually do in this situation is when i take a quick glance at girls in my class because its the first days/weeks, some girls turn around and look at me and i see them from my peripheral vision. Since i know they will stare at me again and again, i hold eye contact at them and when i catch them staring, i smile and they smile back.

Thats the attraction part. smile at her and she will reciprocate. as soon as she smiles back, proceed to look back at what you were observing.

trust me, girls love this. guaranteed attraction when you look back to your business because you avoid the creepyness and you smiled, which gave her an IOI.

hope this helps

All you guys need to maintain strong eye contact is nonthreatening body language https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pcVfSjB ... ature=plcp , add a smile, turned head, open palms/exposed wrist, will all help. All I do when I make eye contact is smile at them, then they smile down, look down, and then there is an initial attraction a lot of times but not every time.

Strong eye contact isn't wrong but there is certainly a better way to do it, if you raise your brows and even wink you can flirt before you ever say a word. This also shows confidence.

If a woman isn't attracted initially she may make eye contact and look away but not down(submissive) this would mean she isn't attract to you. Some women are just very submissive and look down regardless. So it is up to you to recognize the attraction, it isn't guaranteed.

I highly recommend you use this, if you want to come across as confident(or alpha as it's referred to on the forums) you must make strong eye contact https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TrkOSvQ ... ature=plcp and not look down, looking away I do all the time. If the woman isn't attractive I look away all the time, but I'm sure not to look down.

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Ya you don't wanna be the creepy guy in the room. But if you make eye contact with a girl just don't break it. If she shows any signs like a smile or her playing with her hair. Or she might even say hi. But you are gonna have to approach her.

The Koon

This is awesome advice