Hey there, just joined the site after reading The Game recently and looking around on the internet.

Never had much of a problem attracting chicks but at 32 I'm really hitting my stride and want to max out every opportunity I can get.

Travel a lot, but normally Essex/London parts of southern England and Wales, plus a few other overseas places.

New to the online thing and the book, so a little slow on the lingo and acronyms, so bear with me on that.

Sounds like your already doing ok what bits are your stinking points ?

Always room for improvement, as with anything. I don't even consider myself a PUA, as that has a kind of 'fakery' connotation to it. For me, it's real, I just want to get better at something, and if I have to study and work at it, then that's fine.

Text game could definitely do with some work.

Dealing with objections. Before without really studying anything, sometimes the approach would go really smooth and everything would be fine. Other times, it'd be confronted with an objection and I didn't deal with it.

They're the big 2 on my mind at the moment, there are other holes, of course, but I'll come to them as and when I think of them. It's Saturday night and I'm distracted...

Incidentally, recently been reading up on the apocalypse opener, really fascinated about that. When I was at school, a mate of mine's old man told me a story about a guy he knew at college. They'd see him going around the club approaching women at random and getting slapped time after time after just saying something. They'd ask him what he was saying to all these women that was getting him slapped so much. 'Wanna fuck?' he replied. Jeez, no wonder you're getting so many slaps. 'Yeah, but I also get a lot of fucks too.' Bit of a friend of a friend story, but reading of the apocalypse opener reminded me of it and there's something really attracting me to the idea of just using this atom bomb of a direct approach method

yea definitely direct approach that one u may need to take a bit of e45 with u for the sore cheeks , i think if you get some grief on openers you need to give as good as you get don,t let them take a upper hand its a form of control think you need to learn some replys from heklers its that sort of thing dont do text gaming myself but plenty about it on this site and others just google it , just keep reading stuff and trying it some of it works some dosn,t good luck tnite if your gaames good you won,t need luck

Cheers buddy, and have a good night yourself, thanks for the advice