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PostPosted: Mon Apr 30, 2012 11:07 am 
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What's the PUA response to your girlfriend witholding sex?

I can guess the general idea but any one-liners or routines are appreciated.


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What's the PUA response to your girlfriend witholding sex?

I can guess the general idea but any one-liners or routines are appreciated.
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PostPosted: Mon Apr 30, 2012 2:07 pm 
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What's the PUA response to your girlfriend witholding sex?

I can guess the general idea but any one-liners or routines are appreciated.
Assuming you're in a relationship and have had sex with the girl before, then soft-next her. Read my link below about dealing with bad behavior (assuming it's bad behavior and not because she has a yeast infection that she doesn't want to tell you about). No one-liner or routine is going to fix this problem.

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Occasionally my girl will do this! We've only been in a relationship for around 3 months so I don't push the matter but I do have my eye on it.

I think at an early stage girls will do this to try and regain a bit of control as sex seems to be their last trump card. The girl I'm seeing is a bit of a control freak and at the start of the relationship every day we had sex the next day she would deny. This was a pattern that continued for the first month. I just took it as a shit test.

I seemed to pass it by being completely unaffected or pissed off at her rejection. I just viewed it as there's nothing she can do to upset my fun/flirty frame. If she denied sex I'd just say "you get me too turned on" then I'd just go to friendly banter mode again.

I don't know if I handled it correctly but it seemed to work for me. I'm pretty sure the worst thing I could of done would of been to turn into a sulking beta or voiced my frustration. I just kept in my head, "ohh well her loss. I have other options for sex if she continues along this path."

It will occasionally still happen when we get hot and heavy but I don't know if it's her monthlies or not as it's only really happened twice since the first month. Plus the way I see it is that sometimes I don't want sex if I'm really tired so I'm not going to hold it against her.


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PostPosted: Fri May 04, 2012 6:24 pm 
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What's the PUA response to your girlfriend witholding sex?

I can guess the general idea but any one-liners or routines are appreciated.
Assuming you're in a relationship and have had sex with the girl before, then soft-next her. Read my link below about dealing with bad behavior (assuming it's bad behavior and not because she has a yeast infection that she doesn't want to tell you about). No one-liner or routine is going to fix this problem.

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Oh man just read both of those links. Very good stuff, especially the part about bad behavior/soft next.

Question - can someone tell me what an AFC is? I keep reading this on here and understand it is bad and want to make sure I am avoid that type of behavior like the plague!

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Oh man just read both of those links. Very good stuff, especially the part about bad behavior/soft next.

Question - can someone tell me what an AFC is? I keep reading this on here and understand it is bad and want to make sure I am avoid that type of behavior like the plague!

Thanks
AFC = Average Frustrated Chump.

"..the typical modern male. AFCs are just your average guy, who’s usually had some success with “getting lucky” with women, and may even have had a few girlfriends throughout their lives, but as a whole are pretty clueless when it comes to attracting women." - Vince Lin

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PostPosted: Fri May 04, 2012 7:26 pm 
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Oh man just read both of those links. Very good stuff, especially the part about bad behavior/soft next.

Question - can someone tell me what an AFC is? I keep reading this on here and understand it is bad and want to make sure I am avoid that type of behavior like the plague!

Thanks
AFC = Average Frustrated Chump.

"..the typical modern male. AFCs are just your average guy, who’s usually had some success with “getting lucky” with women, and may even have had a few girlfriends throughout their lives, but as a whole are pretty clueless when it comes to attracting women." - Vince Lin
Ah got it. Yep, that was me until recently.

Currently in a 5 month relationship, made some beta moves early on which I am kicking myself for. Passed some of her shit tests, failed a couple. Definitely in a better frame and state of mind though after reading just a few of the articles on here.

Girl I'm with is quite indedpendent, guarded, and likes to have the upper hand. She recently lost the upper hand and things have been going much better as a result.


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