NIGHT 1:
-Saturday Night, I'm walking up the stairs of the nightclub next to where I work and lo and behold I spot this absolutely gorgeous girl. Brunette, big button eyes and the prettiest smile. Insta-boner. The best part is? I've seen her around my college. I don't know her name, just recognise the face. As she's walking out of this club (with only her girl friend, thus implying she might be single but I'm not too fussed if she isn't) I say "HEY. You go to my college don't you?" and she panics like Hell, because she doesn't even see me coming towards her through the packed crowd.

She looks at her friend, looks at me with a big grin on her face and says "I don't know. Maybe." then starts giggling and laughing with her friend. I have to go clear up, so I'm like "I think I do. I gotta' go clean now. Cya round." and bounce off up the stairs.

DAY 1:
-Monday Morning and I'm on my way to class on a route that takes me through the canteen. Walking past the seated area and I spot her, I stop and start speaking to her. "I KNEW I recognised you from somewhere." And she immediately gets a big grin on her face (seems genuine, not sure) and is like "Oh so you do."

Now, at this point things get weird. Because, I've never had this happen to me before. I'm not sure whether it was nerves from talking to her, or just my body behaving weirdly but my jaw suddenly started shaking while I was talking to her.

PANICMODDDEEEE.

So she asked if I had a good night at the club (IOI?) and I was like "Yeah, I mean. I wasn't in that club, I was working in the one next door" and she's impressed by the fact I worked in a nightclub. I told her that it was a one night only placement but because I'd made such a good job of it, they wanted me back full time and potentially to train me as bar staff too which again, she was impressed by.

Anyway, she apologises that she doesn't recognise me. She tells me that she's never seen me before. It's at this point that I make my fumble. Awkwardly I'm just like "Well, I'd seen you around..." instead of saying something cool like "I'd seen you one time in the canteen and I've got photographic memory. Never forget a face."

I then ask her what her name is, she tells me it and asks me mine and I politely introduce myself with a handshake (kino). Then I head off and don't see her for the rest of the day.

DAY 2 (Today):
Today there's no real interaction but I'm sat in the canteen, just chilling with all my friends and reeling off a big laugh I got after joking around with a friend and she walks through the door. Spots me instantly from the crowd and I see her too and she's grinning at me immediately. I grin back and give her a curt wave back smoothly.

DAY 3 (?):

This is where you come in. What's my next move? I have no idea where to go next. I've never been made nervous by an attractive woman but I'm pretty sure now I can maintain my cool after the success of our semi-interactions.

So what's the plan guys? Throw a dog a bone here.

Number close. Keep being cool and keeping things short and simple. Be confident, treat her like you would a friend. How would you talk to them? You're going to see her around a bit cause shes at the same school.

Next time you see her. Walk up to her and INSTANTLY whip out our phone.

"So stranger. I have a name but I don't have a number." Give her your phone.

Done. I think you've done well enough that she'd just throw it down.

If she's hesitant..."Okay, heres what we'll do. I'll give you my number. Shoot me a text if you feel like it. And if you don't, throw it away and we'll continue just smiling at each other when we see each other around." Smile (have a pen or paper), write down your number, walk away.

Thats it. If she gives you her number. Text her immediately right there and then "This is the awesome/cute guy you just met." And then just be "Cool, i'll give you a shoot next i head out, maybe we'll see each other around at the clubs again."

Then after that, start text game.

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You are some lad. Thanks for the advice mate. I might actually be able to pull this one off. Haha.

I think I'm doing well so far, but it's mid-game that I make an absolute arse-ache out of 9/10 times. Usually because I delay it too long and don't close.

Not might. You will pull it off.

Its all about confidence.

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+ Rep for you lad.

Thanks mate. Keep at it. Let us know how it goes.

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DAY 3:
-No progress. Didn't see her around anywhere and believe me, I was looking. Wednesdays are always awkward days. Tomorrow will be harder, but worth a shot.

If she is giving you
IOIs, start
compliance testing her

and if she responds well to the compliance test start giving her IOI's followed with an IOD calibrator in order to preserve her comfort levels, allowing you to come back and
repeat the cycle again! hope this helped mate! (:

Thanks for the advice TeenPUA, though can you do some quick terminology for me with examples? Wtf is an ioiCallibrator?

Anyway.

DAY WHATEVER
After another day of having not found her, I decided to check out my practically abandoned facebook and do some recon. Turns out she's got a guy. The IOI's are still there, but meh. I'm not one to jock on someone's girl no matter how hot they may be.

Nevertheless, I'm working again this week and it's time to game, hard.

Hey MrBundy, I know this is a lost cause now, but for reference: from what i've read of this, you need to hold the frame of conversation and give her hoops to jump through. for instance, you'd want her to do something so that she demonstrates value to you. This could be anything like getting her to sit on your knee for instance. Of course you wouldn't demand it, you'd come up with a reason for her to do it in a more subtle fashion. If she declines give her an indicator of disinterest.

Pick up the mystery method book if you haven't already

hope that helps

Thanks man.

Will do, Mystery Method is one of the few I haven't read. That and "The Game". I've read all the obscure ass ones, but not the two mainstays.

Anyway, I'm out tomorrow night so this should be an excellent time to get my night game going.

I'd say look for an in to just be friends, hot girls have hot friends, if you give you get, life is fair like that.

Of course! Another word for this is just called the BAIT-HOOK-REEL-RELEASE method.

An example (COMES From mystery method-revelations)

Mystery: Your friend . . . is absolutely . . . AMAZING . . . [IOI] I mean
don’t get me WRONG . . . she could turn me off at any second . . . [IOD]
You can also put the IOD calibrator first, and then the IOI quali-
fier:
Mystery: I can’t BELIEVE you’re from Toronto. I can’t even TALK to
you right now! [IOD] But I’m curious [IOI] . . . [stacking forward]

see how that works MrBundy? you just simply give her an IOI followed by an IOD or and IOD followed by an IOI ( this makes girls crazy) to keep her interested and her comfort levels balanced, hope this helped bro