Heey everyone

Theres this girl ive been hanging out with for quite a while. But never really got interestinf for some reason. Until last weekend. After she visited a gig from our band. She kept following me everywhere that night and ended up in my arms. She had to leave cause her dad went with her to an after party. I said i would be there later.

Eventually i ended up on another after party fclosed some other girl there. Totally forgetting about her.

Later i heard she was pretty pissed about me not showing up. When i asked her if she was dissapointed she said yes and later in the convo she was telling me about this other guy she met there. Now i know this guy and hes deffo not her type nor is he anything special.

My question is how can I get her to meet up again. And trust me. I did tell her I felt bad about it. Dno if that helps. Also this is not the first time i bailed on her so she prolly thinks im not trustworthy.

And do you guys think she is shittesting me with her talking about that other guy?

Hinting her that you felt bad was human and good... it depicts you cannn relate on an emotional level when it comes to frens.
but flaking again and again would give a negative tone to it. so try not to break it again, if you give your word to her. And as far as to meet again, it should be pretty easy... just invite her to some other gig, or some fun thing you would be doing... or i would also go to lengths to do a by-chance-bump-into with her.

she could be shit testing and this could be real too.. but you dont need to worry if you have a strong inner game. and you already know that she likes you, so all the more reason to be more confident and not screw this up by acting needy. Just set up a meeting with her by hook or by crook and then capitalize on it. You already have a non-needy image to her, since you never acted AFC i guess... (atleast this is wat it looks from this post).

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Thanks for your response.

I haven't acted AFC at all indeed. But don't wanna screw it up now by trying to make up for bailing. So I think I'll just go by chance bump into her. and set up for a date from there. shouldn't be to hard since we live in the same neighborhood.

I'll let ye know what happened.

Sure...

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