Go ask AFC Adam Lyons about this one, because he was in the same situation, only more exagerated. When he met Amanda (his wife) he was living in London, and basically had it all, money, women, fame.... but then he met amanda, who lived in the US. She put him in the same situation as your girl "if you really love me, then come here and prove it". He ended up chasing her to texas and they got married, now he has built a new life here with her love and support behind him the whole way... it all worked out in the end for him

Funny but not really because its my life. I put myself here to boot. We live together. I am tested constantly. Its what I get for chasing a girl? Is that it or is it me? Maybe both. Or what I think I really become (Inner game). Ether way my situation is hard on me. Extremely hard. I will elaborate on my current relationship with more posts. I enjoy help. Any help. Which way to turn. How real am I. This feels like it for me.

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Maybe true. Perhaps...

Her love is hard to gauge as of late. I get tested a lot and I feel like she is making a decision...

I do love her more then she loves me. Its a new experience to me all together. Is it not what we get if we ask...

I got the women I wanted exactly.. I asked for her and I got it. I am heartbroken if I loose her. She can not help but toy me with the idea. The game I played was shallow.. I regret playing the game with a girl so sincere.

If I get over her so to speak.. I will always settle.. Because she is it for me. Its a pity. But I am not seeking pity. It just happens..

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I will check out the dude you mentioned.

The current situation is that I live with her. And it can work but it may not?? Is it true or false. The real question. Should I love a women more then myself? Is that not love. Have I grown up too late in life (I am 28). She is only 20. If I loose her I will regret it. Or I will have to become someone else? Ether way, heart break seems the destination at this point.

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So I am living with her in Chicago. I am trying my heart out. I am confused. I am sincere. I broke the loyalty from the get go. I hurt her from the start. She hurt me, and then she laughed at my face. I hurt her back, just because I could not stand being the last one hurt. I really tried to not play such a sad game that I started. I really tried. Why? I should have recognized a sincere girl when I saw one. Or when I saw one in a million. I will forever settle if she can not forgive.

She may forgive it is possible. She is that one special girl we all look for in that regard. But she just may not forgive. She may not (not forgive.) She may find someone else that is better then me. So that hurts. But its also a wake up call to be much better.

What women is going to settle for a guy who is not his best self. But now.... I think I will become a perfectionist in this regard. I used to be hopeful.... If I did not give in to vices. I would be amazing. I am amazing just the way I am. Its why I suppose I want a women to settle for me.

That is my thought process in the middle of this trust battle and game battle. It honestly feels like a battle for my one true love in my life.

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If you pull this off, i am going to drop every knowledge i ever learned in PUA.

keep us updated !

lol

Sure enough, game over for me with this girl. 6 months, however.. I am the opposite of bitter. Feelings are mixed... But mostly I have had lots of break ups that sucked my soul dry.. This one with my ExGF Diana.. It was easy because she did not let me fall on my face and laugh at me. It was difficult because I really gave it my all. I cheated yes.. But I was studying PUA.. So I be rational about my behavior. But this is what chicks do.. I know where I am at now its hard to be obejective and honest without being bitter or hurt..

Two wrongs do not make a right. She is a women I could have married someday. Perhaps we will have another time, because I love even her crazy side.

Maybe it was wrong. "Waiting for the, told ya so." But it felt so right. The magic I made with her. Even her style was hypnotic. During the relationship I was studying NLP, it seems like she always noticed the best path for us.

In the future I aim to be more honest with the women I fuck and the women I want to make just mine.. Its important, to be honest. Do not confuse. But walk that line. It keeps you slick and smooth. All the things women love. I take the good from this and I leave the rest. I am no steping stone for chicks... I am a good dude, and im getting better. See you guys online more often now that I am single.

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Lmao. I was getting that vibe as well.
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You'll need to step back for a second and look at this from a PUA's perspective. You'll then realize just how disgusting this relationship has become. You cheated, and she accepted it? Of course that was bulls***. No sane woman, at least no woman I want to be with, would accept a man cheating on her. And her cheating to get even... and you accepting it? No. Just no. That's sick. And has the makings of a horrible breakup in the best of scenarios.

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Leave now, lose her number and do not respond to her calls and text messages "DO IT NOW"!!!!

She is keeping you in a box while she plays in the sand, you are nothing more than her fool and she will keep you there as her back-up plan until she decides to let you go. I am speaking from Personal experience here!!! Basically, she will keep you there until she gets attached to another guy and then she will let you go and not have any "negative emotional" consequences...You need to END IT with her and let her feel some pain!!! You will be the only one hurting if you don't

Today's Tough Love was presented by Crypto...

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It's truly over now. I go back to school soon. Back to squire one
Not really tho because I got a better sense of nlp. So I'm more ready to start fresh

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