In general ive always been a bit of a crunch time player, whenever the chips were down or the odds were stacked heavily against me ive always succeeded and excelled in the last minutes. This extends to most things in my life, im average at sports, games, school, relationships but for some reason whenever theres almost no chance of me winning or succeeding, immediately i come alive and dominate or at the very least leave a lasting impression. This is not to say im not interesting or scatter brained or anything when not at last minute but i really want to know how to harness the drive and empowerment that comes from a last minute do or die decision.
My question is how do i expand this potential into all aspects of the task at hand rather than wait until last minute? Especially in pickup, i have more success with ladies when i go in completely sure i have no chance and not really paying attention to what im doing, is there a way to manage my state to get my crunch time level of confidence and mojo in all aspects of the interaction.
To be good from the start to finish, any advice?

now i dont wanna sound like too much of a dick, but i dont think anyone here can help. this seems like an inner game issue. spend some time, do some reading and you might be surprised at what you find