I got this girls number a few ago, didn't text her for a week and a half because I didn't have my phone. I saw her 3 days ago and we talked I added why I haven't texted her. I Just saw her today sitting outside outline, we started talking but it was just casual conversation. Someone please explain more to me about mid-game!!!!

converstion is just an element of mid-game, but to be honest ive noticing the lack of my converstion skills. Ive read a bit about how people go into "auto-pilot" where they give the same response to the same typical questions

-where do you work?
-where are you from?
-what kind of music do you like?

Ive been watching the kezia vids any theyve shown me how to break through this somewhat. Im curious to know if anybody has some conversation material. Ive noticed recently that i have had very little to say to even some of my friends, though i know thats not the case i just need to change my frame.

i catch myself being in exactly similar situation and unfortunatelly in my case is lifestyle which i need to develop, it's just boring right now and truely i have nothing to say, as you mentioned even talking with friends. thats pathetic.

Yeah I was in that spot recently, I'm still nog 100% good at keeping convo's going but mostly I succeed pretty well.

- One of my tools, is to listin carefully to the things that they're sayin' so I can react on the more interesting shit they're talking about instead of the *next interview question*.

- Also try to memorize some funny stuff that happened to you earlier that day or week (or something that happened longer ago, but has something to do with the subject you're talking about).

- Is there something interesting in the news?

- Another thing that works pretty nice to, is to talk about things that happened RECENTLY to you two that brings up a strong positive emotion (like a party you both were last week, and were happened a lot of crazy stuff), such things are fun to talk about to, but don't overuse it or talk about it for too long though!


Ofcourse there are way more things to help you at having a convo', but those were the things that came up in my mind first.


Hope you can do something with those points!

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YOUR MIND IS GOING BLANK IN SET. The first thing that usually
happens when your mind goes blank is, the Interview pops into
your head.
The insidious Interview is the mindless stream of questions such
as, “So what do you do?” “Where are you from?” “What music do you
like?” The girl will see these as the blatant IOIs that they are, so avoid
asking these questions!!!!!!!
Use the interview as a tool instead of letting it tool you. When the
question “Where are you from” pops into your head, turn it into a
statement. Use it as an opportunity to practice adding value and
being creative.
Instead of asking, “Where are you from?” perhaps you say some-
thing like, “You know, you guys look like east coast girls to me . . .” [cali-
brating] “Maybe it’s those shit-kicker boots . . . or that look in your eye . . .
like you mean business . . .”
Instead of asking, “What’s your name?” Perhaps you say, “You look
like a . . . Georgette . . . to me.” See how this adds more value? Notice
the pausing as well.
The exact line is not important. What’s important is that you are
using the interview as an opportunity to add value in a more sponta-
neous way using the absurd. hope this helped!

This has been my biggest sticking point as well. I can open and keep it going for... well the opener, and I know alot of techniques including the turning a question into a statement previously mentioned by TeenPua, which I believe was also in Richard La Ruina's book the Natural.

I guess for me its just like hard to get into a talkative mood, like there isn't anything interesting to talk about. Yes my life is interesting and im sure these girls have tons of interesting things to talk about, but how am I supposed to get to that point?

But my biggest problem is I just end up drinking to much, wanting to keep the party going, and forget about approaching sets almost altogether.