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I am in a new town, so I have no social circle here at all. I have made friends with co workers (one is a huge afc, and one is too alpha and in a relationship and blows out sets like a champ)
I chose tonight (and most nights) to go out solo, and I really have a hard time generating social proof.
What makes it more awkward is that I am in a smaller city, of 70,000 people. Most girls my age (26) seem to be either very unattractive or engaged.
I used openers I've had some success with in the past, tonight, and got totally blown out at every turn. girls just weren't having it. It shot my confidence to shit. I don't get it at all.
I want this life - I want to master it. I'm stuck, and frustrated.
advice?
Begin the new guy can be good as you come with no baggage
70,000 is big enough to find 100 NB9/10's in. You ride all them and you will be a master not an afc
Get opening sets and keep you game up and you'll get a reputation