Hey it's Fantom,

I want to share with you what is in my opinion a number one thing
a woman wants from you to do, when you're talking with her.

When I talk to women, they tell me that if there is one thing that they
hate the most in a guy - and that literally turns them off from him in
an instant.

And they say, that if the guy just did this one thing differently, he would
actually be attractive in her eyes.

They tell me that this thing is so common that they feel so lucky when
they meet someone who doesn't do this - who does something else.

So here's this one thing:

It's making the woman The "Authority"

Imagine you got stopped by a policeman for speeding.

And the fine you would have to pay for it was HUGE.

And now imagine how you would behave towards him, just to see
if he would "cut you some slack and let you go"

You would:

1. Recognize and accept him as the authority
2. Treat him with "you're higher than me"
3. Kiss his ass a bit and behave harmless

This is EXACTLY what women tell me men do that literally makes them
RUN for their life.

Men make women the "policeman" of the interaction.

They're::

1. Affraid of saying something wrong and making the girl leave
2. Trying to kiss her ass in hoping she would exchange this for "some"
3. Treat her as "you're higher than me"
4. Recognize and accept her as the authority over him "She has the power, I have no power"

Well, what you need to do is to differentiate yourself from the other guys, and
do something that actually turns women ON, instead of OFF.

And this is this:

Make YOURSELF the "Authority"

Next time you talk to a girl, be her authority.

And what is the number one way to become the authority?

Take RESPONSIBILITY.

Women don't want to take responsibility for ANYTHING.

They have a problem with this, and don't ask me why.

But if you walk up to her, and you communicate on a subtle level
that you're not the man who takes responsibility for what happens - she
will be repelled by you.

When you demonstrate that you do take responsibility, you demonstrate
that you are the authority, and she feels attraction for you.

Think of the reason why are women secretly fantasizing about police officers,
soldiers and generally "men in the uniform"?

It's this "authority figure" that gives them this feeling of "You're taken care of".

So next time you're talking with a girl, pretend you are above her as her
"authority".

Pretend you're a policeman and she just got stopped for speeding.

Imagine, how would you talk differently with her if you had this kind of view?

Then, put some humor around it - or share some stories - but as you're being
humorous and share stories, communicate you are her authority.

Makes sense?

Now, if you recognize yourself as the guy who puts women above himself,
and you see women as the "authority" then there is a technique called
The Flip™, that deals with changing how you view women, and makes you
view yourself as the authority, and women as below you (in a positive sense of course)

To get your technique, click here www.volcanoconfidence.com

Talk to you soon,

Fantom

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Kay, next time I go sarge I'm gonna whack the girl in the face as an opener. Show her who's boss and stuff.

JK man, I think you're right on with this, defo gonna try to pay attention to this while talking.
Keep up the good stuff!

Lastnight, sitting around drinking wine, with my bff HB9 figure model, who is very open (at least with me, because I fucked her and still remain friends) about her visions on sex, Threesomes, relationships, and basic dating.

She openly told me, SHE is not responsible, to figure out where to go for a date, when to end a date, when to kiss, and when and where to fuck.

And if you want a relationship, she will not be responsible for maintaining it.

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Agree with what you've said here fantom, just thought it was worth highlighting this bit in that particular quoted passage. The "pretending you're a policeman and she just got stopped for speeding" thing is fine in the way you meant it. Just thought it was worth pointing out though that without humour as well, you don't want to take that too far, as you'll come off as a dick. I know you made that point here above, I'm just highlighting that as I think it is very important not to take the authority thing too far. Yes you need to BE the authority, but without sort of belittling her and making her feel completely like a naughty 6 year old being told off by her mum!

Thanks for the read. It was interesting.

very true.. and Great thread

this thread answers why nice guys finish last.

Leave the nice guys alone lol.


Just wanted to ad to my reply.


Yesterday I read this thread then used what I learned on 3 girls, via text.


Learned something from it, good and bad.


First the good, it works.

Now the bad, there's a fine line between jerkism and authoritize frame control.

That difference is a fine line. Think I said that already lol

WHAT I LEARNED:

DO NOT do it on a girl who has lost lost total interest in you. That is, don't create an authorithize frame (be in the "cop", "father", "teacher","judge", "whatever" frame) with a girl who hasn't been responding to you. You'll come off as a total total creep.

HOWEVER,

It does work to get a girl who's interest level is low (but there) to open up. For instance, a girl kept telling me she wasn't interested so I created a frame.. an authoritize hustand frame. She opened up and told me why she wasn't feeling me. Not a lay.. far from it.. but she gave me some good feedback but still manage to fuck it up which brings me to my next lesson..

DON'T PUSH IT.

When you see that a girl bites to your Authorizity frame, drop it. Don't play that game anymore. Instead, build rapport.. ask about her day, stuff like that. Being on expiremental mode, I pushed the frame to it's limit to the point where... well, let's just say I went too far.


And finally, it works.


All credit to Fanton for this fantastic thread.