Maybes it's your cool image and frame that attracted your ex's to you but when they got to know you they found out you were a very nice guy,which turned them off. If you want them to stick around longer, to day dream about you, don't be so available to them. Don't ask about their day. Just don't be fucking nice, unless they've earned it in some way. And even then, thank them by letting them give you a blow job.

X_Factor360 wrote:
I try to please EVERYONE all the time.

I'm always changing my behavior depending on what group I'm around.

I'm always seekin approval from others, ESPECIALLY women

What is wrong with me? I HATE this feeling of having to be manipulative and secretive ALL THE TIME.



Hey all nice guys out there!I know man how you feel because I've been there....just too fucking nice.But NO MORE MR.NICE GUY.Nope.And I would reccommend you some sources to troubleshoot your nice guy syndrome:

1-Get "How to be the jerk women love" by F.J.Shark and dont just read it apply it and watc results
2-And if you really want to get rid of the "nice guy syndrome"(fuck) get your hands on either Carlos Xuma's "Alpha Masculinity Program" or "The Bad Boy Formula"(both are concentrated on getting rid of nice guy syndrome.)
Yet again dont read it then sit back and hope that everything will take care of itself.It doesnt work that way.Get your ass in gear and do the required work.
And Yes!Its going to be a bit of hard work but at the end its worth it.Get some edge in your attitude.Do somethings you never done before like using the word "Fuck"explicitly,going to strip club,making some nasty comments and purposefully offend someone,tweak your language and the way you dress a bit.The problem is that you become far tooooo nice infront of women-thats not good.Show them your true masculine side and your imperfections.Deal with it.

You mean, call someone a name? Some guy is more likely to do that to me? Thats something I would not feel comfortable doing and believe karma happens to people that do those things.