I was at a bar last night with my friend and i was feeling a little AFC. My friend and I were sitting at the bar drinking. I have some nights where I am very social and have no AA and others where i do have AA. I am trying to figure out how to get into the right mindset and if anyone has any tips, songs, videos, that get you in the right frame I would appreciate it.

But back to the opener. I saw a group of three girls, 2 HBs and one ugly chick. I walked over to the ugly chick without even acknowledging the two HBs and said to her my friend is driving take a shot with me. She said okay and walked back to my spot at the bar and she told me her name and we started talking (don't have the shots waiting, ordering them leaves more time with the girl). After a few minutes her 2 friends came over and the ugly one introduced my friend and I to her friends.


Basically, instead of having to go up to the hot girls and introduce myself, this is a way to get their friend to introduce you to them for you. I will continue to use this, but I will also try it on an HB next time to see how she reacts. I thought by trying it on an HB she could blow me off but the ugly chick would feel flattered that i asked her over her hot friends so there is no way she would say no.

Any feedback would be greatly appreciated.

Don't buy her a shot

Why? I know its AFC to buy girls drinks but if I buy a girl a shot when I really want one of her friends I feel like it gets me closer with the girl so when she introduces me she will introduce me better. It can also make her hot friend jealous that I bought the ugly friend a shot and not her.