So this HB we met at a party, we got back to her house but no sex, eventually things gradually increase to a relantionship but no sex.

Saw that she had problems (abortions , stalker EX B/F, separate parents, with a bipolar mom) and this made me be more carefull with her,than any other girl.

One month pass and we still havent did any sex, only foreplay.Just had sex two weeks after that so it took me 1month and half. She told me her previous boyfriend took 5 months so i was very luck and like a good afc i got so happy for that achviment. We had problems related to distance... and we cut contact for 4 months.

We got back and she told me that she met a guy in wedding and after 2 days he F-Closed. I have to say i was pissed it took me month and half. Her explanation was that he was going away to his country and she would never see him again while me , I was at the time a possible boyfriend.

I know its insecurities but its pissing me off, Should I believe this lie, Or this guy had better game and had nothing to do with the fact that he was going back to his country, and my weak game\frame stopped me for having sex earlier.

From what I read, you have to really decide if you want to be with this girl.... You need to sit down and do some pros and cons.

I, personally, would steer clear of this girl. Many other girls out there mate.

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-Hit me up with some Reps if anything I say has helped! Much love.

I have already made my decision.

Just want to understand and you guys help me see if she is lying or not, or perhaps she is lying to herself.

Girls will abide by the "Must make guy wait rule" unless (1) the guy has a very sexual frame (i.e. not boyfriend/provider material) or (2) she is bored or requires validation. Her explanation makes sense. He was not boyfriend material so, therefore, it was okay to sleep with him. Look on the bright side. At least she told you that she slept with him. Why would she tell you that, but lie about the details? It doesn't make sense. She was probably telling you the truth. You should probably be rewarding her for being open and honest (rather then being mad/upset because you are insecure).

Having said that.. this girl has all sorts of red flags. Proceed with caution and be prepared for drama.

-Wolf

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Screening: drama-free-relationships-1-screening-vt124827.html
Bad Behavior: drama-free-relationships-3-the-soft-next-vt125554.html

Soon as you make the decision you will not care anymore, then she will want to fuck you, so stick with it Bro! then fucking her will be YOUR choice! Tell her, Every time we are together I want to have sex with you, and that's your fault! you do not seem to want to, so I am going to have to stay away from you for a while! Then do it!

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