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PostPosted: Tue Apr 24, 2012 10:26 pm 
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Ok, so making eye contact, no problem. My question is about maintaining eye contact. Now, with girls I often use the "triangle" method of one eye, other eye, lips back up.

But this is more generic than just pick up. If you're talking to someone, how long do you look in their eyes? Do you look somewhere else as well? I find myself looking into their eyes for a while, but then flicking away because it feels awkward to maintain eye contact for long periods of time, yet how do you look away without it looking nervous/bad/dismissive etc.?


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PostPosted: Tue Apr 24, 2012 10:59 pm 
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I made a thread about this in gen questions a couple of weeks ago. Use search function and all your questions answered.


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PostPosted: Thu Apr 26, 2012 4:44 am 
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I made an Alpha video, series, sorry about the long intro, I was having a little too much fun with the editing software. Here is the Alpha Eye Contact Portion.

http://youtu.be/TrkOSvQaRYM

Basically all it comes down to is making sure you don't look down or show unconfident behaviors. If you are making strong eye contact while someone is talking it is just natural, look away here and there to break the tension than return for eye contact. Avoid looking down when you look away, it's pretty basic. If you have a tv or something look away at what takes attention than look back.

When you are talking though look away and look around then make eye contact. It will tone down the intensity (unless you are at that point in which case strong eye contact is key).

By the way which triangular gaze are you using? The eye to eye to hairline(which is more for business) or eye to eye to lips(intimate gaze). Each tool has it's place and if you try using the intimate gaze before strong enough attraction it can make you come across as creepy.

Following the proper response curve is key when it comes to gauging how much eye contact to give a woman. Your eye contact should increase as attraction and especially as sexual tension builds.

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PostPosted: Thu Apr 26, 2012 8:15 am 
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Cheers man. I've been waiting for the rest of the vids, think you'd uploaded around 6 to your blog last time I checked. Will take a look now.


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PostPosted: Thu Apr 26, 2012 9:18 am 
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Cheers man. I've been waiting for the rest of the vids, think you'd uploaded around 6 to your blog last time I checked. Will take a look now.
Yeah the whole thing is up now here is the Play list version. https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=P ... ature=plcp

Here is a https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0_nlGcT ... ature=plcp the 30 minute full alpha show. Something is weird with the sound though. I couldn't figure it out but the information is there, and the size of the file made it very difficult to upload and I think my computer may have been pretty tired from all the video rendering by that point.

I hope you enjoy let me know if you have any requests or would like anything and I'll answer to the best of my ability.

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