hey guys just a recap, below is one of my previous posts..

"""hey all, basicaly got talking to this girl through myspace who went to the same uni as me (we have some of the same friends) and we have met twice for drinks (unfortunatly we both drove so it was just soft drinks) both meetings seemed to go pretty well however kinda lacked that spark. i asked her about meeting for a 3rd time and she agreed and seemed interested however later that week when we were chtting i got the whole ... "i dont want to lead you on, im not looking for a relationship"""


right i took the advice from u fellas and we moved on from this, however my game hit a little hurdle and when it came to aranging the 3rd date there was no interest from her and when i asked if she wanted to meet up sometime the reaction was 'sometime' which isnt the best thing, now its not a case of im really into this girl or anything its just i was wondering if there is a recovery for this situation- to be honest would like to use this as an oppertunity to practice a few things on someone im not really really into so next time i can work it better, now i havent spoke to her for at least a week

any advice or should i just cut losses

Well whenever I get told the "Ya sometime" line I just nod my head and start planning out who I wanna hit on and pick up next. Don't worry about a 3rd date. If she wants a 3rd date let her call you up and ask for one. Until then go out and game other girls, it's not like you need to focus on one girl. Infact while you were inbetween dates with this girl you should have been out sarging other girls. My motto is, unless you both agree on a 1 on 1 closed relationship, then you should be free to date other people.

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-Shaft

yeah i agree shaft, i did go out and sarge in between these two dates and was quite sucsessfull (number and kiss closed both times) but just wondered if i could use this girl as a tester and try some things on her so when i do find somone i have had practice at dealing with the yeah sometime situation




rock on

Well what sort of tests do you wanna run on her? Medical? Emotional? Sexual?

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Party on Wayne! Party on Garth!
-Shaft

i dunno really, i was just wondering if i could recover the situation, prob gonna try the freeze out for a bit

i think shaft has a good point about goals. i find it extremely difficult to appear confident when i don't have clearly defined goals. without them i come of very unenthusiastic, and indecisive. this is definately not what girls are looking for. they want someone decisive and driven. so even if you don't know what you want in the long run, pick a short term goal. wanting her to call you first, wanting to have her trying for your attention all night. getting her to want to take you out back and hump like rabbits in the bushes. anything, but definately SOMEthing.