I keep adding all these guys on my fb who seem like party animals and all. Well I see pictures of them with women and one guy I just couldnt hold it in, and did this.....

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Man, there seems to be a lot of skilled players in this town, makes it seem like I'm out of place here.

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Whats that supposed to mean

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No, I mean whenever I'm adding people and all. I see their profiles and it just appears they're really good at getting girls and all. Not calling all players. But it just appears that way.


Just be honest and tell me if i effed up here. I add these guys on my fb because I envy them and I know I need to stop this and just do things myself. I have become nosy about what these guys are doing behind closed doors, what women see in them, I don't know why I do this. Maybe I want to be friends with these guys more than hook up with women, and I even read that guys into game or naturally good with women don't want to friend someone who isnt good with women. It was this Ferdinand guy on some blog that said this.

You might be gay. You should go talk to a therapist who can help you come to terms with this.

No, I do want women, I get off on doing women in my mind, I just want to have that kind of friend that you should have had growing up. I need friends also to help attract women, since one guy who isnt good with women appears to have let me down. I would feel more comfortable in someone else's presence.

Alpha guys are not going to want someone who is "Needy" your presence will actually DLV them. You need to get yourself out of the house and go meet people. Talk to the girl at the grocery store, the starbucks, the gas station, etc...I mean ask them questions about themselves and get to know them. Tease the girls and encourage the guys.

IMHO: You need to work on your self confidence!

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[quote="will29"]I need friends also to help attract women[/quote]

No you don't! You do that yourself buddy. You don't need any wingmen or anything. Just some friends that give you an excuse to go out. Hopefully the majority are girls because that helps.

Needing friends to help attract women is the most ridiculous thing I have ever heard. Women arent interested in how many friends you have, it can help if you have many but really it starts with you. If you feel you need tons of friends I think there is a void within yourself you are trying to fill. One of the most attractive things you can do is love yourself, that's really what a girl wants in a guy. You can have tons of friends but still be self loathing as shit.

Yeah, I guess that Ferdinand guy was right then about guys good with women not wanting to be friends with guys not good with women. It's like you have to do the same thing to attract guys like you do girls.

Okay. Its interesting though when I see guys taking pictures with women on facebook and they're all with a bunch of friends at the bar or whatever. How does that happen? And does that mean those guys were sleeping with those girls later that night.

Probably because people who love themselves generally are people you want to be around. Someone is a downer and self loathing is not someone who is going to attract other people regardless of male or female. Also, many times those females are in their group of friends. You really need to stop caring so much about amassing friends and start just not giving a damn. When you stop giving a damn and learn to just be your best self you'd be surprised at your results.