Hey guys, how you been?

Ok, so this is what happened:

Dated a girl for 5 or 6 months, from the very start I wasn't convinced she was a good deal so I told her to be in an open relationship, she agreed.
I thought a couple of times of asking her to be my gf but she is very flaky so I decided not to.

At some point by January I lost interest in her, but she kept calling me and by March I started going out with her again (it took her a good make out to get that).

So, three weeks ago she invites me out, say she will be by my house at 8:30 pm but never gets here, I told her over SMS that flaking talks terribly about her and she goes ballistic, so I decided to fuck off totally.

Now, I find out that one of my "friends" is her new boyfriend.
The guy has been taking her out for dinner ever since I introduced her (normally this girl would invite me over to these dinner but I stopped caring about one month, and started getting suspicious).




How would you feel?

I feel a lot of mixed emotions, I dont want her but I am angry, and want to fuck her brains out... I think my friend is a shitbag and I dont want nothing to do with him.

The most disturbing part to me is that in her birthday one month ago I was making out with her in front of this guy.
The fuck is going on??

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Sounds like you only want her now that you can't have her and seeing someone you considered a friend with her has triggered your 'I want to be the King' alpha male impulse.

It's human nature.

But what you need to do is figure out what you want. Get out of an emotional state and into a logical and rational one.

My personal recommendation would be go meet other women, having some girl be able to trip your emotions like this isn't good.

If you've read The Game, think about that whole situation where Mystery flipped the fuck out over jealousy. Not a good look.

Thanks man.

I've been thinking hard about this and I came to the conclusion that mainly I was feeling angry at myself for having trusted an asshole. Once I accepted that I started feeling much better.

In a sense all this situation may be for good, I wanted no serious relationship with her, so this could bring a closure.


By the way, this girl talked with me two days ago through IMS.
She asked me to be friends the three of us, I told her that she and I may still be friends if she earns my trust again. But my asshole friend, I want nothing to do with him.
I told her that I expect some manliness from my guy friends and this guy showed me he had nothing. Surprisingly she understood.

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