Tonight me and my wing decided to go out and work on our AA.

About 1h before we went out we got a message from some girls I know that they were having a "before-party". We were ofcourse invited so we went there. Upon arrival there were 7 girls and the 2 of us. We said hello and introduced us(big mistake, we should have forced the girl who invited us to introduce us, that would've started a conv... I hope anyway). After this we sat down, looking amog. The girls started talking about nailpolish and stuff that the 2 of us couldn't relate to, so we were left out of the conv. We tried to make the conv become more neutral so that we could be a part of the group. But they were total bitches and replied with short words and phrases, so we didn't get anywhere. [help here plz]

Then we started working on DHV by telling stories about cool things we've done. One of these stories was when my wing and his family was in some arabic country visiting a sheijk(don't know what it's called, but it's basically a bad ass rich oil dude with a funny hat) and had belly-dancers dancing for him in a restaurant. None of the girls listened. (freaking nailpolish!!!)

None of the girls listened to anything we had to say, so we regrouped by leaving the place pretending to go out and have a smoke. We talked strategy for a while but realised the girls had made their "bubble" and had a comfortzone, wich we were NOT a part of.

We stayed outside for about 30 min. Then they started calling my phone asking where we were. So we slowly went back in...

Group: Where have you been?
AFC's: So you've missed us, hehe (C&F)
Group: ofcourse we have, but where were you?
AFC's: We were out (we didn't want to say where we had been, just so that they would be more interested plus they would realise they had basically pushed us away)

eventually we made up this story about some drunk dude that was really funny. They got interested and a conversation was up and running.

This conv. went on for about 5 min. But then we were back in the exact same position as before. The girls had their comfortszone and we were not in it! We knew that we were getting major DLV and decided to bounce. I called his phone from my pocket, he answered and pretended he got a call from some really cool dude who invited us to another party. He said it so that the girls could hear him. They heard that he accepted the invite, coz where we were at was boring as shit! So we said bye and that it was a pleasure meeting them and left. The girls looked puzzled.

Now we had lost all our energy for sarging, but we didn't want to go home. So we went from the boring "before-party" into town. Luckily we found a group of people that we knew and went out to the bars with them. There I gamed a 3 set, really cool girls, but no *-close of any kind.

Ok guys, need help with those extremely unpleasant girls. I don't want to be a looser and blame this on some fucked up factor, but the thing is I live in Sweden and the girls were swedish. Swedes are known for being unsocial. So do you think we must work them in another way?

PS: Also check my wings FR, so that you have both sides of our stories . --> viewtopic.php?p=63791#63791

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i have to disagree about the swedish, my old wing was danish, currrent wing is norwegian and two girls i gamed yesterday were swedish and german (altho she was a swede who moved to america).

basically was in the same position, prior to going to a club we went to a girls apt and found it to be 7 girls, me and my pua friend. started out us drinking alone and the girls all talking bout their own stuff. we just messed around started taking pictures in goofy poses. lookin like we had fun. swedish girl comes up to pua friend rnt u gonna introduce me to ur friend here. he does and we small talk for ten minutes. neg a couple times about how shes wearing a corset. then i pull her hand and we start taking more goofy pics with the swedish girl. chinese girl joins in and pua friend gets to talkin with her. we get a couple more goofy photos 2 guys 2 girls and we get a call from a friend. we excuse ourselves and say weve promised to go to another party. swedish girl asks where were going and we tell her a club then a frat party. she says shell follow. 3 blocks later she asks if neone will go back to the apartment with her (missed an opportunity there) because she forgot her id. i didnt offer thinking i would look shady and afc so she says nice meeting you. whats your name i want to facebook you. swede and another hb walk away. pua friend and i roll into club wit asian hb and 4 other hb's.

lesson was just have fun or look it. the swede came over when she saw how much fun we were having then her asian friend followed. altho i am chinese. being chinese used to be such a major hump to work against but theres definitely a bit of yellow fever goin around for guys and girls.

That was a really good tip! I'll remember to try that one out next time... and bring a camera.

Everybody wants to have fun and if you look like your having a LOT of fun people will soon want to join in. That's what we should have thought of.

/The Wing

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That's an AWSOME tip! Thx! This one goes into my memory for the next time this happens.

/R.O

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One thing you could have done was neg the girl that was into RO in such a way that makes allies out of her friends. It is tricky because you don't want to insult, but be flirtatious and make them self-conscious.

lol. Maybe you could have given a false time constraint like your mates are in a certain bar at a certain time and you may go to meet them as you don't know which club they will be at after so you need to catch them before they leave

Never sit there bored waiting for them to finish their conversation, always have something you could do. I mean the girls asked you to come over, they wanted to be entertained.

I like the idea with the camera, I do similiar things on my phone lol.

do a fake laugh, then wave your hand over your face to show a blank expression. People always laugh when trying to do this.

in a dark room its funny to pull a face, turn light off, pull different face turn it on, turn it off, pull a different face, ... etc, etc, ... then put a blank face. and you start laughing and so does everyone else when they try and do it and can't keep a straight face.

how can you entertain them if you cant entertain yourself ?

Talk to each other about the pictures on your phone of when you wee having fun. have some funny videos on there and you both watch and laugh and then the girls will see you are funner then their mates and the attention will all be on you

As long as you don't take the piss out of each other, just think what you wouldl do in their situation. You are sat there having a great discussion about modified cars and 2 boring girls are sat there watchin you
There is nothing you can talk about with them apart from the fact that they are being boring and quiet. USE AN OPENER

all this stuff is genius. my norwegian pua friends been doin this alot. my favorite one is stupid pics of girls hugging us, making funny faces the night before and videos of our tomfoolery. looking back it shows pre-selection, serves as a topic of conversation and dhv. btw simcity r u scandanavian also seems like ur lingo is close to my scandanavian friends?

yeah, I'm wondering that too, are you scandinavian? If that is the case, wanna hook up some time and sarge?

/R.O

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