Im concealing my name just like any PUA ive read about or watched. I want to learn as much as I can, not only to improve my sex life, but to grab a special lady ive kept my eye on (not in a stalker way). I full of useless talents (shuffling, rubiks cube, rune reading(amateur lvl), musical instruments(not so useless), and most of all pointless conversation. Maybe what im looking to gain out of this is better self awareness. Im not sure what ill find, but what i do know is being a professional seducer is powerful as well as dangerous. Ive never felt this motivated at changing my life, and i want to make the absolute best at this. PUA!! show me what you've got!!

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Believe in the you I believe in.

already im off to a bad start. Maybe i should clarify what it really is im after..

I need to learn charm, confidence, and how to meet more women. I want to be the guy who almost always knows who youre talking about.. which means I want to REALLY expand my social circle. im not socially awkward, but I've been crushed by failing myself in my last relationship. and that has made me double guess everything and over analyze way too much. Becoming a PUA is my alternative to changing my mind set and relieving myself of life's rut.

my main goals:
1. be able to gain anyones approval
2. gain confidence & self-value
3. see if this girl is really the one
4. up social status.. positively

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Believe in the you I believe in.

Ambition - I like your name man.

I too recently got out of a Long Term Relationship and looking back I see a lot of mistakes that I made and how I failed myself and her. I have definitely fallen into the trap of over-analyzing everything I am doing and am working hard to restrain/retrain my observing ego back to a useful-instead of paralyzing-level.
In my experience and I believe everyone's experience approval seeking behavior is extremely unattractive. Think about it, surely there has been someone in your life that has really looked up to you and sought your approval. Did you respect them or did you look down on them? When you have sought out the approval of a man you perceived as higher status than you, how did that work out? Have you ever tried to gain a beautiful woman's approval? Approval is something that can not be accomplished with typical approval seeking behavior.

This is something I struggle with on both sides. What I am learning to do is approve and be comfortable with Myself and not be so concerned with what others might think. I believe that accepting one's self for one's self is where the greatest calmness and confidence comes from. It's only when we are approving of ourselves that we can approach those we approve of, as equals in social status and power.

Good luck with your journey, may it be fun and fruitful!

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MiikusMaximus
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You will be far more likely to regret what you haven't done than what you have.
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Be the man you want to be while living the life you want to live.
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I only have three rules
1. Make It Fun
2. Show Don't Tell
3. Be Genuine