Hi guys! Here comes my first post.

Yesterday night me and my buddy(R.O, a member of the forum for those who cares) was invited to a party(before going out). The "invitor" was a girl who's kinda into R.O(read his posts, the hb7) and the party was at some girl's home.

So everybody at the "party" were girls(7 of them, all hb 6-7) except for me and R.O. When we entered we shook hands with everyone and then sat down. They seemed like nice girls BUT the problem was that they kinda had their own party and didn't talk much to us(we talked with R.O's target and her friend). It was very hard to relate to any of there topics since they talked about women's underwear, shoes and other boring women-ish things(which we also noted to them in a jokingly matter). We both tried to "open" them a couple of times but we just got short answers(not rude just short). We played Alpha male and talked loudly(not too loud) about interesting stories to eachother so we wouldn't look like total losers(dhv).

After a while me and R.O went outside(we had to change our tactics). We were out for a long time and when we came back the girls asked were we had been.
Answer: Did you miss us?(said with a smile)
Girls: Yeah(serious)

When they asked how we got inside we did'nt answer straightaway but instead made up a story about some drunk hobo. That seemed to catch their interest and we thought that maybe we could get somewhere with this. We negged them a little and joked around but after a while one of them goes to the toilet and another girl starts talking about something else... opportunity lost. From here on it continued on as before so me and R.O pretended we got a phonecall and headed out to our imaginary-party(Since this one sucked big times). Lucky for us we found another group of friends later on.

The Question is: Do you guys got any advice on what we could have done to get into that group?

Thankful for any help that can improve similar to-be girlparties
/nElss0n

Perhaps working on your opener. You said the women were talking about their own things.. go in there with high energy and interesting topics, and get them to talk about YOUR topics.

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just read ur friends post, seems like you guys did everything right in terms of openers. but use more interesting stories and opinion openers. they draw everyone in and start friendly little debates within the group. i had the same situation yesterday 7 girls all hb 7/8, me and my wing. we did sum small opinion openers. they didnt hook well either so we went off and started talkin bout how much fun we had the night before, how we were treated like rockstars. we took out a camera and took goofy photos. swedish hb8 comes over asking to be introduced so my pua friend intros me. a couple more goofy photos later asian hb 8 comes over to talk to pua friend. we get a call from a friend and say we have to leave to go to a club. they ask to come and we bring them (all 7). 3 blocks later swedish hb8 says she forgot her id and asks if neone will get it with her(missed opportunity for fear of looking shady or afc). another hb 7 leaves with her leaving me, pua friend, and 5 girls to go to the club.

fr has the rest.

Thanks for the feedback, as stated the issue wasn't really the openers. For a more in-depth report you can read my wing's post:

viewtopic.php?p=63814#63814

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