I have almost no experience with women. Never had a girlfriend, only kissed one girl 10 years ago and ive only had female aquaintences. Lately I've been playing the numbers game online and ocassionally approaching in person and getting dates every once in a while.

My question is, how can I ever get experience if things always dissipate after one date? And i am following up with them. They either say, i lost interest, i just want to be friends or i never hear from them again or they say they want to go on a date but keep putting it off or flaking for weeks. This has been going on for a year now. How can I ever learn? Never been on a second date with any girl I was truly interested in, except for this girl I dated in high school for a few weeks.
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The only girls who remained interested in me where the ones that I wasn't interested in dating because I didnt want to date at the time.

I feel like they always loose interested after the first hangout. This has been going on with the last 10 girls I've asked out and been out with. It could be for varying reasons or the same reason. I wish I could identify the problem and fix it.

I feel like if I had at least a few female friends I could learn some things. Should I contact girls that weren't interested and ask why they weren't? How should I go about fixing the problem?

What pickup/seduction material have you tried so far?

Do you get to kiss these girls on your dates?
I had a similar problem, found out that my trouble was no kino at all.
Her sub conscious makes her believe you are not interested, therefore, she has no interest in someone who is not interested in her.
Just saying.

I've actually only been implementing online sarging so far. I know I need to eventually go out and practice but I've been putting it off. Only been going out once in a rare while.

I had been talking online with this Hb7 for a few weeks, (law student) She kept coming up with excuses and claiming she's too busy but the fact that she's still returning my messages showed me she was still interested.

I eventually made concrete plans and told her she should join me at this bar I was going to and that she should give me her number because I wanted to do something with her over the phone. She sent me her number within minutes so she was obviously intrigued by the game I said we would play. Later that day we had some light banter and chatted for a bit over the phone. We were planning on meeting in two days so I had to move things along.

Then I dropped the cube game on her. (At that point the comfort had been built so I didn't even need it but I decided to play it anyway.) Afterwards I told her that I would give her the interpretation when we would meet up. She told me the next day that she looked the game up online and discovered it was from PUA. Surprisingly enough she was still interested but slightly more apprehensive.

The next day she called me and said that it looks like we wont be able to meet because her dinner plans with her grandparents got pushed back.

Then the next day I called to touch base and see if anything had changed and she said that she will probably be too tired that night to hangout. And we should try again when she gets back from vacation in 2 weeks. (Keep in mind I had already been talking with this girl for 4 weeks)

BUT THEN...SHE CALLED ME LATER ON WHEN I WAS AT WORK THAT DAY. I was already thinking she was probably going to say that she is moving on or something. I called her back but she didn't answer. I texted her saying that whatever she has to say she can tell me. At this point I am almost positive that things aren't going to work out. (I have some inner game issues)

She texts me that she will call me later on tonight and she has to tell me something. Then she texts me "drinks at 10" at 9:00. I texted her saying "a little last minute don't you think? Ok but I can't be there until 10:30"

She then responded with. "We're definitely not compatible" and that she thinks that I'm a nice guy but she has lost interest in the past day or two" which was about a day after we started talking on the phone.

I told her if thats how you feel fine. And that was that.

How did I blow it?

Another girl I actually met in a bar and hung out with later that night and then we had a second date two weeks later. But she became a ghost after that. But that's a whole other story....

Get off your computer and meet women in real life. "Online sarging" will only further push you more and more into your comfort zone of not taking real initiative, and it will become harder for you to get off your ass and into the field.

Get off the dating sites before it's too late.