Hi there, I just signed up for this forum after a few months of quiet reading.
I am 25 and i have no problem getting girls, iv slept with probably around 200 so i am usually okay but now i have a problem so this is were i am hoping u guys can help so pls be honest with me and brutal if u need be.
Right here goes.. i have recently been hooking up with a girl. girls details= she has not long been out of a 3yr relationship, she has been single about 3months told me the usual bla bla her bf cheated on her, all men r pricks etc, she has just turned 21 and she is stunning the kind of girl you could take home to meet ur parents, respectable, faithful type, wont talk 2 my friends etc, she says shes only slept with 3 guys b4 (obviously could be lying im not naive).
In my opinion she is girlfriend material 100% but i have never been in a relationship b4 because iv never met a girl i would like 2 be in 1 with and also i like 2 play about as im sure alot of u guys do, i seen her out in a club about 2months ago ( iv known her b4 this for a few years but never really talked 2 her but we both knew of each other and iv always liked her) anyway she grabbed my bum, bought me a drink we talked etc then i wanted 2 get on with my night so i left her and went back 2 my friends, 2wards the end of the night i was with a girl then i was going to take home 2 bang but then i bumped in2 her again, i asked her if she would like 2 come back 2 mine , she said yh but made it very clear we wudnt be having sex (bitch pls i thought) so i left the girl i was with and took her home, so basically i turned sex down to take her home
she slept at mine , we snogged all night but nothing more happened
in the morning i dropped her off home and we exchanged numbers, since that night we txt each ova nearly every day and have hooked up about 5 times she has also cancelled on me twice. wen we hook up we always kiss properly weve shared the same bed 3 times, shes gone as far as playing with my cock a bit nothing proper and she doesnt let me touch her main bits. i am very confused to what is goin on between us because im not ust 2 waitin and havin 2 gain trust? maybe? i dont kno
wen we txt il mention sex and she seems keen then ova nyts she will be distant, with any other girl i would have 4got about it but with this 1 i cant, obviously in the 2months i am still banging over chicks and playin about the same way but i really want this 1 because feel she could be the 1. on one of the occasions were she cancelled on meeting me i txt her and said delete my number to which she replied " done, ur rude" i was hoping she would txt me but she didnt so avta a week i txtd her then things wer bak 2 normal txtin everyday etc, i asked why she never txt me and she sed cus u told me not 2! she seems very wise and knows the game well so in a way i feel like she is playing me, wot is goin on guys? why isnt she givin it up? am i stuck in the friend zone? is she teasing me? do i carry on pursuing her or do i accept its not meant 2 be and give up? i think shes in 2 me and i cud get her but she is so hard 2 read. what do i need 2 do? any ideas? maybe i like her more than she likes me which would be a 1st, in fact iv never bin in 2 a girl as much as i like her, im careful what i say 2 her i play it different with her maybe thats where im goin wrong, she has agreed 2 stop at mine monday night and i think if there is no more progress then i will giv up on her. sorry for the long post and thanks for reading, any replies will be appreciated>
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