Hey man, so this is a little thing i think works with girls you've know for a long time...
see i always hear guys saying "forget about her man, theres 3billions chicks out there
just get another one and get over it..." but honestly man, if you already have a girl
you're interested in and you haven't blown yourself out then i don't see why you
shouldn't at least try right? Remember that you miss 100% of the shots you don't
take, so you have nothing, NOTHING, to lose by trying...
alright lets get to the point... i've noticed that when you've been off her radar for a
long time, it does come off a bit weird to just randomly go and talk to her as she'll
think you want something from her so i like to do a little "snippets" technique.
basically you go talk to her with some random little thing you notice, mention
something cool (maybe some kind of DHV story of yours), disqualify yourself, then
just leave... make that False time constraint real... this way she'll slowly get you on
her radar and start thinking about you... without even really knowing why. Alright i
now this may be hard to understand so let me give you a little example:
"Hey Gloria, nice presentation." or "Hey, did you do the homework." or even just
open by taking a scrunchie that you brought and toss it on the floor near her and ask
"hey did you drop this?" --> point is to talk to her right? just do something...
Then be like "i like your hairstyle, it looks a little like the style my ex used to have
but to be honest, i think you pull it off better, haha." (see the DHV of the ex, and ten a
little flirt with the you pull it off better...)
Finally, do a little neg or something like "oh hey you have something on your eyes
there" or something on her ear or some lint on her shoulder... just something that
makes you seem uninterested after having flirted...
Then, and this is the crucial part, is once you've done this just leave... "alright, i
better get going..." and walk away... now i know you'd probably want to stay and
have a deep meaningful conversation with her but by leaving, she'll want to keep
talking to you, you have to make yourself scarce so that you'll become a blip on her
radar. and the more you can do these little "snippets" the more she'll have you on her
radar.
However, sometimes she calls you back to keep talking with something like "hey,
where you headed?" or something like that... generally this means she's interested
and you've already got your foot in the door so you can just keep the momentum
going with your own charisma
hope this helps man... it's what i use to do with the
girls i was really into in my high school and it always ended up well.
Cheers, Clowd
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