Thank you i'm glad you liked the info


liam79, that's the whole point of getting over AA,
going into an unfamiliar environment/setting and
succeeding in conditioning yourself and depending
yourself to get the result.

No one is going to make this anxiety go away but you...


QUICK reminder guys, be sure to check back on this thread
at mid-day tomorrow (in about 15 hours) for a special video on how
I put the info I've told you, from the start, into practice in
an 'undercover infield video' from my local hotspot. I'll be showing
you how effective the mentioned direct approach is and that it
works when put into practice accordingly.

I'll also be breaking down the approach so you can see that
you can pull off the exact same successful opener too and
see there is nothing to be afraid of...it's all in your head.

Make a note for this guys it's going to give you that extra edge
and motivation to try it for yourselves!

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'Bitches aint shit' - Chai

Hey guys

Unfortunately you'll have to wait till Friday (3 more days) until
I can upload the video! My laptop's gone in for a service
so I can't edit and upload anything

Be patient it will be up soon!

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'Bitches aint shit' - Chai

Hey chai... success. I went out and approached. If only you could polish my game up it would be really appreciated. So here's what happened.
I got the balls to go and talk to a girl.
So,here's the lowdown. I got on the bus with my cousin and went to the
city to find out whether there were any cellphones
we could buy for a law price. So anyways,there was
this great looking girl on the seat in front of me. I
kept looking at her fucking hair the whole fucking
journey without even talking to her. So she got off halfway and left. That got me ticked off and angry.
So I got determined to talk to the very next girl I
saw. So we got off the bus. And I almost felt my
balls quivering in my sack. My heart was racing and
I felt that sick feeling in my stomach.
And Lo and Behold! I turned around and delivered my opener. ''Say,are you following me?'' She was probably a fuckin nut job,or my opener
was way fuckin out of line but she looked at me
like I was crazy. And didn't say a thing. So I asked
again.(p.o.i-we were walking. I was thinking the
whole time whether I should have stopped and
talked to her but my balls were telling me to keep the fuck walking. Any comment?) But she waved
her head in a don't-fuck-with-me-kind of-look. So
this whole time, my cousin is tagging along with
me..with a wtf look on his face.
And just then, my head went deaf
and I ejected. But afterwards, it felt like the most fun I've had in ages. Any feedback is loved. Statistically speaking-
1-I went to town with my cousin.
2-we went to a few phone shops to look for his
merchandise. Being the quiet man I was, I found it
amazing that I found myself bartering with the
shop keeper for a discount (did this warm me up for the opening?)
3-We got on the return bus.
4-There was a HB 8.5 in front of me. And I couldn't
talk to her which got me so pissed that I decided to
take a step.
5-I got off the bus. 6-I started walking.
7-On an impulse I looked behind.
8-There was a HB 6 behind me walking the same
way I was.
9-I turned around and opened her.
And then ''that'' happened. 10-I ejected and went away laughing.

So what were my weak points and what could I do to cover them up?

Hi Chai,

This way to approach a woman seems very legit and very true to oneself, but in my country, girls tend to be really closed and often just ignore people as opposed to other countries in which I have been on holidays.
Chances are, that even a calm/nice/confident guy does not even get a response out of this 'honest' approach out here.
But, because I do not want to just decrease the value of your post, I will put it to the test several times, while making sure that I am not nervous and stuff, and then post a report in this thread.
Me and a friend who's been into PUA for a very long time both agree that the general characteristics of girls tend to differ in some of the countries, so that maybe a slightly less direct approach will be more useable to approach Belgian women.

I did enjoy reading your post and besides my critique, do think that this is a great way to approach AA. Your writing is accesible for beginners, which is great.

Kind regards and keep it up,

Niles

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A man can be happy with any woman as long as he does not love her. - Oscar Wilde

I can't polish up your game for you, I've only supplied you
with the tools It's up to you as to how
far you're willing to go to in improving yourself is
where the most attention is needed. At the end
of the day it's up to you how much time and
dedication you will give in polishing yourself
up cause you're the guy out
in the field making the approaches.

I'm only the guy giving out the info, the
rest is up to you as to how you're going to utilize it.


DUDE! You should have used my direct opener,
the one I provided at the start of this post.
Be honest, did you read this post before
or after you went out on this day?



How did you deliver the opener? It's VERY important
you say that one it with a smile
and in a funny manner so you don't convey
any intentions that you're trying be
rude or come off as a creep.

If you just said "Hey, are you following me? "
with no emotion or sense of ease then maybe thats
the reason she got weirded out.
I don't think there would be much value in bartering with
the shop keeper per say, but doing that probably made
you feel more relaxed. If the shop keeper was a
gorgeous girl would you have reacted in the same
way?
I would have to say that you need to calibrate yourself better. Learn
how relax you're mind and body when making that intention of
approaching women so you don't freak yourself and your
target out. Read a book called 'How to Become an Alpha Male' by
John Alexander. It focuses on helping you're with you're body
language and shows you how to convey that inner confidence
upon approaching. It's a fantastic book I still use it today

So many people under-estimate just how good posture
can directly improve you're mood and the general
confidence about the way you convey yourself.
Take the most important notes from it,
it will give you that boost in the field.

Finally, at this point in time, it's very
important you work on improving getting
over you're Approach Anxiety's and how
long it take to opening.
If you spend longer than 3 - 5 seconds thinking
about if you should approach or not you've
now consciously decided not to approach
her at all.

You've not psyched yourself
out to even consider getting up
or moving towards her
because you've conditioned your
mind to hold you back. You
need to Systematically Desensitize your
brain by making approach after approach
after approach.

Set a goal for yourself as to how many women
you need to approach everyday (if possible).
For now, make it so that whenever you go
out or have the intention to practice,
approach 3 women with the direct
opener(s) I have provided for you.

Also check out my youtube channel for
2 other videos on approaching. It is so
important you follow the routine as
I've layed it out for you in the
simplest form and that's why
it designed to be easy and
effective.

Last thing...paraphrase you're post's man It's a little
hard to lost track of when someone is reading. Make
paragraph separations every 6 - 8 lines so that
you give the eyes a break and focus (I know
that my style is 7+- lines and break leading
down lol.

Have a particular style when
posting so others can get into that
habit of reading you're info
a particular way).

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That is true. Every country has a preferential as to how they
react or communicate with other people. Like, the english
can be cold and distant (cause of the weather), the
americans are loud and obnoxious,the french
can also be stuck up...it's different everywhere
(sorry if I offended anyone lol!!)

But that's besides the point. Women are women.
Communication is, by nature, a universal language and
it's all about what you say and how you say it. Yes, you will
meet the occasional bitch, but generally women are kind,
caring and social. I don't know what the culture
is like over there, but I'm positive that if you
come off as a friendly person and show no
intention of coming off as a viable threat
the target or even the other person
will be open to a chat?

It also has to do as to how you deliver the
routine and what you're conveying to
the target. If you're not confident in
your delivery, how can you
expect her to respond the
way you intended?
If you could post an infield video of you're approaches
that would give me a great deal of insight into how Belgian
women respond to certain routines that would be awesome!
If you're not at that stage to make videos yet don't stress.

I'm glad you enjoyed the post and thanks for the support

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Yes. I read this post BEFORE I went out chai. But that's just what happened. I froze just like that. But on my part, I'd say that was great! Coz I didn't even have the guts to open before.

And the other thing, I was smiling when I opened the one on the street. But we were at a busy bus stop. There were buses pulling up from everywhere. So she probably had places to go and things to do.

And you missed 1 of my biggest questions. Should I have stopped in my tracks and made her stop some how? Coz I sort of got the feeling that she was more concerned with the road than she was with me.

And thanks for pointing out the writing 'Alpha'. Point it out if I'm wrong but Somewhere in the back of my mind there's this (probably silly) notion that you might be trying to AMOG me. But no hard feelings coz I'm here to learn and I am learning.

I see. Bus stops are loud and aren't a good base to
establish chat. Apart from it being smelly and rushful
people don't exactly want to hang around that area
for too long, like you said she did have somewhere
to be...this is why it's ideal to rather focus on
approaching in quieter places like your
local Mall or even a park for example.

Sorry I must have missed that I don't think it was in
her interest to stop in the middle of the road so
No. It's all about location man. It would have
been acceptable to stop in your tracks
and approach her in a quieter and
more comfortable environment...
however, if you're trying to
chat with someone
in the middle of the
road or where lots of cars
are coming and going I would
too be more concerned about my
safety.

Keep in mind that alot of crooks
lurk around those kind of places, all they have
to is bump into you and next thing you know you're
wallet is gone. You're environment was factoring in
how people could have reacted to you. If someone
tried to stop me after I got off the bus I would
also feel that way. Take that into
consideration yeah?

Nah man that's not even the correct term haha. AMOG'ing is
only relevant when there's a guy in you're set and he's got
the highest social value and when someone tries to take
that away from him he becomes defensive and
makes it his intention to make sure you fuck
up or that you don't get his women too.
It's more or less the same as a cockblock
but thats another story! You get me?

Although, take into account that I am trying to teach you
guys some 'Alpha' traits for you to inherit and absorb
into you're own life so you can be more confident
and become better.

As a joke, you could say i'm the AMOTG 'Alpha Male Of This Group' lol!
No hard feelings man don't worry bout it.

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'Bitches aint shit' - Chai