Hey guys, I need advice on how to get my HB9 ex gf back.

We've been broken up for a month now but I know I want her back.

After we broke up at first we remained friends and she said 'Maybe in future we can get back together after I sort myself out'. I accepted this at first and it wasn't a problem.

Now she is meeting up with a lot of different guys, is on a few dating websites, posting pictures on her facebook where men are throwing themselves at her. A few days ago I started asking a lot of questions and admitted I was jealous (huge mistake). This just pissed her off and she told me she felt that I was judging her, which it was more about me wanting to know what was going on. Then she said 'there is no way I can get back with you now' So obviously she thinks that I'm AFC due to my insecurities.

Since then I've initiated no contact with her and it's been three days. She sent me a message saying 'I was meant to meet up with 'random guy' for a photography shoot but he's stood me up I feel like a fool'. My response was 'ahh that's a shame I'm out I'll talk to you later or tomorrow' which I never got back to her.

It just feels like by going no contact she is meeting up with more guys and one of them she has seen several times and I can see them getting together and he doesn't seem as AFC as the other guys.

Will no contact make her change her mind about 'there is no way I can get back with you now'?
Will no contact make her miss me or just push her closer to the other guys since I don't seem interested???

Does anyone know how to get an ex back?

dude u made some very common mistakes..
she is now seeing you as a friend, you need to avoid that.
if you want any chance of her getting back to you then u need to man up.
meet other women, go no contact at all! your sms response was great!
delete her from facebook.
don't give a flying fuck about her.
tell her that you cant be her "friend" and it wont work.
improve yourself as much as you can and make some signifcant changes.
when the time comes and she will choose to contact you or you will choose to contact her, you will be a different person and you'll have the chance to game her back.

i cannot guarantee she will come back but i assure you its the right thing to do anyway.

(sry for bad english)