FUCK! had this extremely sexy chick committed to come to my place. We had a date before once (just grabbed a drink) and met eachother in a bar k-close. 3 hours of LMR.I dunno but i had a simmilar case this monday on another girl so probably i have to change something.

Dude i made this girl horney*horney² She would'n let me fuck her. Lets make it short

Start
Planned a date by phone. Day before the date she initiates contact. This girl liked me i'm just sure. Got her from the station, made her dinner we talk and everything goes smooth.

First physical contact
We are on my couch and at some spontanious moment we start kissing. havier and havier. My brain goes like yep ready for take off. I start to touch her and she's ok with me touching her bare nipples i grab her pussy (clothes on) and i now undo her bra. I'm like SEXY TIME! The music stops and i planned to fuck her for three hours so i now stop and say; "Let me put on my playlist". She reply's; "your a quicky hu, have you been practicing this?" with a nice smile. I say with the most normal voice; "Oh yeh you meen undiong bra's? they have championships at that" And we make out again. Now suddenly she had her fences up this all came so out of the blue for her she forgot to at first. She crossed her leggs a bit and i felt just some resistance. But hey im persistant and i continue.

The next 2.5 hours
I made my couch into a bed and put on a movie i've spend the entire 2.5 hours arowzing her and when resistance was too high i stopped and just acted cooler than cool and watched the movie!

Again we make out and i build up, and when risistance got high she now started to verbalize her LMR. She pointed at the height of her belt and said smiling ; "Thats the border". I say "Why?" But i think let's not argue and watch the movie again.

I did this i think 3 more times and tha last time i was rubbing her pussy with her clothes on like before. But man this time she starts to breath hard! And the fluids just came all the way tru her pants. She was wet, wet wetterdy wet!
Still she wouldn't let me in her pants and i'm like verbalizeeeee! I tell her rubbing her pussy. I want to fuck you. She nodds no with her mouth opened and eyes closed. I want to fuck you. Again nodded no! I WAN TO FUCK YOU! This time she remained quite and breathed harder. But again she wouldn't let me in!!! She now want's me to put my leg between her legs so i can put pressure on her pussy.

This game goes on for 20 minutes i brought her to the station in a sortof; "you have to leave now" vibe.

Befor she enteres the train i kiss her on the lips and tell her i'll call tomorrow. She remains silent with this smile of power on her face and leaves.

Help me
i have one more case like this SPAM
How to proceed/what to change

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HI

Fuck me, sucks to be you haha. I'd have been pissed.

I would have tried to convince her. Said something like "I want to fuck you" she nods no "i'm a big fan of doing what feels right and this feels right, nobody needs to know".

Never came across this type of LMR before so IDK, might work might not. There's nothing needy about this type of convincing when she's obviously horny as fuck. She's probably insecure about sleeping with you for some reason, you probably need to make her feel more secure. If she feels slaggy you have to make her think she's not.

My line above might work, but as I said it might not.

I had the same fucking problem this saturday! Need some serious advice on how to handle brutal LMR. It was practicly the exact same situation only she had a boyfriend and used that for a reason but otherwise just quiet like she wanted to test me with the patience of forever.
This has happend to me before but i always managed to straighten them out...not this one. Many hours of trying, me getting fucking annoyed at her, jacking off next to her and then telling her to go sleep on the couch. She always came back and started helping me jack off and touching her but no fucking or even stops. WHATS UP?! When she left we kissed and changed numbers. How will i sort this out?

Sorry for borrowing the thread.. but to at leats try and give something back the jack off part have done wonders for me some times. If they give you last minute fuck-test and wont help you, they can fuck off and you do it yourself. Makes them shocked and like you abandoned them and they come back every time...Except of this time!!!

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Dont fight it, enjoy it..

For starters, stop telling girls that "you want to fuck her" when you're in the moment. This is completely counter-productive. She knows what you're intentions are. When you say that to a girl, you are essentially asking for her permission. Why on earth would you give her an excuse to verbally deny you?

You have to give her plausible-deniablility. She can't go home and tell her friends "I don't know, it just happened" if she verbally agreed to having sex.

When you're getting hot with a girl, just do it. Don't let your words get in the way of your success.

Also, remember that sleeping with you is a privilege. You are the prize. When you hit resistance, reframe it as such.

Her: "We can't do this."
You: "You're right, this is totally wrong."

This line is delivered without any hesitation and escalation continues.