Recently my girlfriend said that we shouldn't have sex as much, and that it would be more meaningful if we didn't do it as often. Neither of us has our own place so we only get on average about 3 opportunities a week. Help please!

Just tell her that that doesn't really make any sense, because doing it less frequently won't do anything except make you stop expressing your feelings for each other as often, so you think that you'd be making it mean less.

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i think its time for a new girlfriend, or maybe two to add to this one, so you can have three and use them all on the other downtime

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What I say when I see her is what I'll say.

offer up alternatives to sex "hey bitch suck my dick"

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Sounds like someone might need a new girl friend.

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bullshit, less meaningful my ass. do a runner, make an excuse back saying We can see each other once a year it will be more meangful that way. Or tell her you will buy her less nice things as she will appreciaste them more.

first of all ask yourself if this girl is a keeper. if the answer is no, then get another girlfriend, but if the answer is yes, then tell her that its a great idea and that you are up for it.
Doing this will show her that your a meaningful person and will make her more attracted to you.
Eventually, she will be the one coming back to you asking for more sex.

Why the hell would you even have a girlfriend?!

Some guys boggle the mind.

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Make way for the bad guy. There's a bad guy comin' through! Betta get outta his way!

Not everyone has a problem with relationships. Some people actually become PUAs, just so that they can have relationships with the girls they would otherwise turn into one-itises. There's nothing wrong with having several MLTRs, or just being single and going with as many girls as you can handle, but there's nothing wrong with relationships either.

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Simcity, perfect answer.

Actions speak louder then words, next time she wants a peice...tell her your not in the mood. (or it hasnt been long enuff since last time to be meaningful enuff to you)***

Problem is shes getting what she wants too easy. Also i would elaborate on what someone else said...

Do not just randomly tell her if you do x it will be less meaningful, say it when it comes up...

HER: "O look at that jewlery, buy it for me."

YOU: "You know what, i bought you that necklace like 6 months ago, if i bought you something else sooo soon it wouldnt be as meaningful."

Id also say that dependant on how long you have been going out, how serious you guys are, and if you really care about her...maybe starting the look for a new girl would be a good idea, if shes not overly important to you. If she is simply do nice things for her way less, inlcuding sex.

To quote a fellow PUA...

"Treat a women likea dog, and she will beg for treats...treat a women like a queen and she will treat you like a servant"

***will take alot of strenght

PS: Just remebered something awsome from my time with my ex. Our sex lives began to slow down, she put the 'all you want is sex' guilt trip on me. I read some womens magazine with like 7 great tips for sex, and the next time we had sex i used them.

Needless to say she expressed to me that the sex was way better, and shortly thereafter began to worry that i learned them from sleeping with another women, thus i got sex more frequently for 2 reasons...she didnt wana lose me, and the sex was better.

Pick up a few new tricks, blow her away next time, see how much more frequently you guys have sex after that...and if your feeling mean toy with her if she asks and dont tell her were you learned the new tricks.

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-Ka-
"Be the same, only better."

I agree with the concept behind this, but I definitely do not agree with the actual statement.

This is what seperates true alphas from the jerks that have alpha qualities. You make sure you are in control, w/o treating her like a dog.

No offense against you Ka. Not saying you agree with the statement itself, just had to point that out.

You know, you have this choice . . .
"Woman, go fetch me my whatever." And, in turn, you don't reward or anything, you just take.
"Babe, get this for me." She obliges, and you reward her in some way.

The second is obviously the way to go.

O yea i agree, i dont mean it in a literall sense.

Basically the idea is that if you treat them as if the are better then you they will feel that they are.

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-Ka-
"Be the same, only better."

Best way to handle this is like this:

"I think your right, i understand...ok only once a week now....deal?"

She will be so thrown back by this she will want it all the time.



zexy: LOL, that wasy good. True too!

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