Hello
I'm a new member (just singed up) but read a few topics here for a while.
I have a question about standing: how can I show self confidence while standing.
Just standing. when, let's say I'm with a friend we walk in the street and we stop because he meets someone he wants to talk to. And I'm waiting for them to finish and start walk again.
What is an alpha posture in a situation like that?
And another question:I guess that standing with my all my palms in my jeans pockets is beta. What about sticking only my thumbs in? Should I use my pockets at all to if I want to be alpha?

Thanks

my personal oppinion its not about just posture its about your facial expressions.
Usualy good posture is alfa posture, chest in front, proper spine like it shoud be.
Dont cross hands n stuff..

but facial expression is more important, that is by my oppnion biggest part of body language, I think you should have smile all the time! but not like or

You need to have SET of smiles for a lot of situation.

For example you need different smile when you talk to a guy where you wanna show him that hes not boss if he tryst to be and you need to have smile for a girl where you want to show... that you are the boss

I cant make facial expression but you dont express same emotion so ill use photos on forum HEAD.

Look at gemblers diskret smile. This is sort of smile, you can see that he is not worryed or in some sort of disconfort hes like 'im the boss im ok with you but dont fuck with me"

Its not fullsize smile but its sort of smile, Same sort of smile have carlos xuma.
Imm ok with you but dont fuck with me, and im not in any sort of disconfort making that face, expressing that emotion. We are ok but wach out we easly cant be.

Getting that if you are not in any violent society is not hard. IF you are not gang member or in prison. Cuz there is nothing except yourself stoping you getting that attitude and it wont hurt.


So why smile? you allways wanna send a positive message. Eaven if you are in trouble with someone. You dont ever ever wanna send message of some sort of hate, cuz hate is weakness.

So that + normal posture. strong regular posture like man should have sholders back, chest front proper spine.

I like to tilt my head a bit to the side.. dont know why... i just think its cool

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5Ze3-p7EgF0

Just published a video on alpha/confident stance(I apologize about the long intro, I got a video camera and new software so I am overdoing it a bit). A wider stance is better it takes up more territory. Alpha people take more space.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ycqMeHqVpQc

Your posture is very important in looking alpha. You must maintain good posture.

If you are exceptionally tall you do not need a wide stance, your size can look threatening so it may be a good idea to avoid a wider stance.

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Yeah non threatening body language is very important. It is so underrated in the community. I have a little 16 part alpha body language video thing coming out and I do go over smiling, and nonthreatening body language.

It's not the most in depth but it certainly goes quite a bit of info.

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Im watching it.

I'm 6ft 2" and everything is small for me. I struggle to get out of my car, the mirror in my bathroom is too low (I can't see my face) because the other person who uses it is of a normaler height and loads of over annoying stuff.

As a result, I developed rather poor posture and I had one of those necks where my head would sit forward and lower than it should.

The first thing to do to have alpha body language is fix the posture. Stand up against the wall, head on the wall, shoulders and make the back of your feet touch the wall. Step forward and hold that for 5 minutes and soon enough you'll be as straight as an army man.

Then you can start to add more to your body language like a wide stance etc. I never liked crossing your arms, it's alpha but can be quite threatening. But I do it now, mainly because I got fed up and dangling my arms down my side and stood up as straight, I'd look lost. Never liked hands in pocket thing.

Worked for me.

Thanks Man, I am glad when I put effort in people get stuff out of it. Let me know if you want any questions answered.

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