I hardly ever watch porn. Even when I'm not with my girlfriend for a longer period I prefer masturbating w/o it. It gives a false distorted picture on sex in which both men and women are just sex-toys. It's harmful not just for your game, but your sexual psyche and it can really fuck you up.

You start with watching amateur couples or stripping videos and you end up jerking to 2 girls 1 cup. Up until a point when real sex can't even get the captain up anymore.

Of course once in a while, I do watch it, but that's very rare because it only happens if I'm really horny, in a hurry, and I know that I won't have time and opportunity for real sex or a "normal" masturbation that day.

Whenever else I decide to masturbate I do it slowly and calmly. Many men don't realize that their premature ejaculation problems derive from programming their mind to quickly shoot their load for sexual arousal with the 2 mins long porn watching sessions.

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Shit works. Went clubbing last night with no intention of trying to pick up, felt quite dominant and also knew that I was gonna fuck someone. I had to otherwise I'd be pissed. Got an f close without trying at all.

Problem was I didn't last long and I'm not sure if thats because I haven't got off for a while or because I haven't had sex for a long time either. Thoughts?

Intrigued

The longest I went without watching porn for was 1 month, it was
going great! Then the next day I was watching a WWE womens
Diva Edition and I saw Melina do her entrance to the ring...



Lets just say after that I went back to old habits I guess it
was my own weakness and insecurities that led me back to
watching that stuff again instead of just keeping strong.

I will try this again as the guy from the video said that
watchin porn increased E.D, anxiety, social awkwardness etc...

I'll track my progress and see what happens there after.

Thanks poster!

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It can be both, it's very different interacting with someone and just helping yourself, alone, and at your own pacing. I would say don't stress over that, so you don't develope any mental block next time you get some.

Hmm. I hope it doesn't turn into a regular occurrence. I've never had straight steady sex. Since the first time, it's been a lay every few months (hence why I'm here lol) and each time is only a bit better than my first.

I'm wondering if it's a problem or just lack of experience. Probably the later, but I worry about things like this.

1 week later

So one week later. I watched porn once and had sex once. I decided to cut down masturbation as well to see what this does. Just came back from a girl that was in her period and i wen't creazy on her just to get sex.

Changes
- Went out to sarge and i was wreckless/dominat and even a bit agressive (never have that). Don't know how to handle that yet.
- Wen i'm with a girl i get horney as hell and do anything to have sex.
- In public area's i become present when girls are around and stare them down.
- As a result i get many many IOI's during the day
- I don't have after masturbation lazyness
- I'm tempted to watch porn right now

No change
- Don't have more (often) erections. (ofcourse i had sex onece and masturbated once)

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I've given up porn for the last month or so...

I decided to do it when I tried to hook up with a girl about a month ago and struggled to get aroused. I had been watching porn and masturbating quite a bit before this. First time I've ever had ED.

After two weeks... Waking up with an erection almost every morning. Head definitely feels a little clearer. Had sex with a girl twice no problem getting an erection.

After four weeks... Getting a really hard erection just from making out. Also got one just from a girl dancing against me when I was out last weekend lol.

Also, I could be crazy but a fair amount of women have been holding eye contact with me and smiling. A lot more than normal anyhow. I am probably holding eye contact better myself.

So far I am sold.

OK... I'm going to offer the other side of the equation...

I'm 45, divorced, I've bedded 19 women since the New Year.

I also cum a minimum of 2x a day, either by my own hand or a lady... EVERYDAY. But, my cock is used to that now. I can cum with a chick, I can stop my orgasm with a chick (That's a serious DHV moment when you do that, and tell her "it's too soon for me to cum..."). I can still at age 45 fuck 4x a night (not every night, I'm not in that good of shape LOL).

But I feel the fact I'm used to that every day is a plus for me.

Never used Viagra, never needed to... and I'm still jacking it if there's not a lady over...

Different strokes I guess... (pun intended).

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http://www.drlwilson.com/ARTICLES/MASTURBATION.htm

Interesting read

Terrible article, full of made up stuff. Consult an urologist if you have any real questions about masturbation.

I have read this BS half-way through. This is horrible and there's hardly anything that is true in this article. Just as a background information I study general medicine... Zinc and other nutrients are very easy to replace with eggs for example since the body doesn't need much of those. Also masturbation, to an extent, actually has a positive effect on the risk of prostate cancer.

I repeat...don't believe anything that is written there.

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In the end, it's better to have sex then masturbate.

Can't I pick up girls and be whacking my junk too?

Jokes aside ...I thought about this before I ever saw this topic. WOW. I thought it was only me. I don't know what your guys' reasons are, but mine is simply because when I jack off and then try to go out in the morning (yes the morning) to hit on girls, Im SOMETIMES relieved and hardly want to hit on any girl let alone bother. It's actually fucking terrible to admit that. But at the same time, it doesn't affect my inner-thoughts negatively. Some days you just want to, others you can do both, some you can do one or the other.

I'll still watch porn at night, but avoid jacking off in the morning maybe.

10 days later
1 watched porn twice
I fucked two girls

Changes
I have a date coming up in 3 hours and i noticed yesterday before i want to sleep i started to fantasize about this girl. Like getting her neaked and stuff. It felt a bit like i was 13yo again.

So today i put on my laptop and i have this helmut newton background (thats good stuff). But this time i wouldn't look at is as a damn well piece of art. But i pictured myself fucking the girls. BEEN STARING AT MY BACKGROUND FOR 10 MINTES FANTASIZING


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HI

I'm so quick when I don't do it for a couple days. It's kind of disappointing. If I masturbate daily I can go for over an hour with a girl, but by myself it's like, 15 minutes tops.

I guess it does make my thinking clearer but I don't know. I actually felt like my libido was reduced after a week.