So I know your suppose to be a challenge to girls, and be playful with them, but what else are you suppose to do?

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NEver doubt the power of a smile.

Im not natural but when im smiling and when im relaxed girls approach to me and they are all like open book wanna talk engage conversation smiles back, just smile all the time.

All the nattuarals i see they all have good mood and smile all the time...not a single one is in bad mood all the time, angry or something similar

They are in good mood and cofidant.... challange... anyone can think of themself as challange but if you are in a good mood and you have girls aproaching to you... you are challlange allready

hit the gym, style yourself, work on having good hygene, deeper more clear vocal tonality, more certainty in your words and actions (congruence reflects this), better posture/more confident open relaxed body language, becomming a more centered person/less needy, facing/accepting your fears/insecurities and learning how to cope with them, developing more social intelligence/social awareness, learning how to confidently and smoothly turn a girl on with your touch, devoping a good natural sense of humour, learning to express your intentions free from the need of the approval of others, developing an attractive social circle with social connections that make your lifestyle appealing for others to hang out with you, devoping an attractive lifestyle in general so that being included in your life is more attractive (finding a source of income to provide your ideal lifestyle)

also getting a girl invested in you can make you more appealing big time, connection, trust, time, experiences together etc.