Whats going on players?

I have a feeling that i'm really fucking lonely and world is turning against me. I'm at the point when i know there is no coming back to afc world but i'm not getting regular lays yet. My ex friends are saying this shit isn't real and point out that i'm not getting results and that I "Should stop watching those DVDs" instead of supporting me...

I think all of them think I'm kinda mad. And honestly, occasionally I have some kind of doubts about the game, very very slight ones, it might not even be doubts its just disappointment of getting a flaky number from a girl who gave me 5 IOIs and fucking qualified and now didn't reply. And I might would have listened to what these fuckers are saying if I didn't feel alive for the first time in my entire life when I started game.

I believe that everything is going to be good soon, I'm approaching 30 women a week, I signed up for a boot camp with Adam Lyons, I am pushing my comfort zone, but there is no one supporting me on this.. Some people that meant a lot to me really fucking trying to destroy me by reminding me that i'm not getting results and saying i should stop. I'm waiting for the moment when one of my buddies sees me get SNL with a hot chick and asks me to teach this stuff and I tell him to fuck off and just be himself.

Are there any obvious mental problems in what I wrote? I know I should be non reactive and shit but I have to share it with some one who won't tell to quit. DJ Fuji said at his under 21 convention speech that a lot of guys go through this and he himself had this feeling.

Any feedback is greatly appreciated.

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Tipsy

well first of all, don't do it to impress your friends or try to get their approval. Some of them will always be close minded about the idea. Ive gave my books/material to a few friends , and some of them accepted it, but most of them rejected it.

Do it for yourself, just have fun, go into it without any expectations, or you will let yourself down.

Tipsy.
I know exactly what you mean.
It always seems that people are against you.
You try so hard yet there is no support, nobody gives a damn and you cannot find anybody on your wavelength.

But you are committing.
Keep going.
Keep committing.

In the end were are going to be the Success!

Thanks guys. I feel a lot better now, I had too much negativity in me and had to let it go. What you are saying makes sense.
Success doesn't happen over night.

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Tipsy

I believe there are truly men that enjoy what we here consider "the life" but I also believe that a lot of these people who call themselves PUAs got there more by seducing guys than women. Be careful who you trust.

Be like Warren Buffet, only invest in what you understand.

Sounds like you are taking the right steps to improving yourself, your doing a great job! keep studying and trying it all out in the field and you will see results.

Your friends are not supporting you on this one , so don't mention PUA around them anymore because all they will be is negative about it . Also consider whether they are really friends. A real friend should support you and understand that you really need this to turn your life around. Even I can tell by just one post.

Focus on positive things- visualize yourself having success with women and you shall have success. Be confident.
no there are no mental problems your sane as can be.

Good luck on your PU , but I am sure you will need little ! because your going to rock it !

Hey guys! Your support is greatly appreciated. If it wasn't for you I might not be writing this post right now.

Now after a few months and a few thousand sets I want to make an update on this in case someone else is in situation I was in when I posted this. I'm going to post the most important things that helped me to get from beginner to intermediate level.

1st and foremost - surround yourself with like-minded people. Have wings who can support you when you are ready to quit (and you will want to quit at least a few times) and they will give you feedback, which is huge (my wings made videos of me in sets to emphasize how much i was shaking). Its so huge, I cant emphasize that enough.
2nd - approach a shit load of women. Go out 7 times a week. I didn't get almost any results until I started doing this and now all of a sudden my game explodes. If you are patient and confident and really have a lot of faith in yourself and the game, you can do few approaches a week and still get good eventually. But if you are like me, and want results fast, go fucking nuts and make 80 to 100 approaches a week. In the end of the day its a numbers game. Go only fucking direct if you dont have much time, but you have to hit it hard.
3rd - training. Bootcamp with AFC Adam took a couple of months off my learning curve at least. I went from 80% structured game to about 10% structured. And non-structured game is what makes you amazing in the long run. My sticking points went from flaky numbers to friend zone/mixed sets. And then I nailed it with 600 approaches in the last month.
4th - love the game. Love the process guys, cuz if you dont its really hard to keep going when times are hard.

Once again, thanks to everyone who supported me when I needed help.

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Tipsy