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why do guys use the asshole approach thinking it'l work and yet act surprised whenever it fails (it almost always does)?
Get real dude.
Comfident, humble, and nice is what your approach should be.
Not thinking it will or will not work...and not surprised when it does or does not. What's wrong with having fun? I've started conversations like this with other girls, who had similar replies, not quite the same, but along the lines of rejecting me and calling me a creep/weirdo/asshole/crazy/etc....who ended up sucking me off a few good times....Its dudes like you who take shit too seriously..However, I do agree being confident, humble and nice works more than anything....But don't be too quick to judge what others are doing, or why.