Ok so she messged me first we I made her qualify negged her then on the third message said we should txt to get to know each other better because email takes too long. When i negged her she sent two messages.

SHE MESSAGED ME FIRST on a dating site... I dont have anything but 4 pics. She said oohh you live close by =).

She hasnt responded i sent the message last night because she was online in hopes she would responds right away. FUCK what did i do wrong please help!!!! Detailed answers are appreciated! thanks guys!

It's hard to say what you did wrong. Too many varibles to precise. She could have found someone, she could be a guy posing as a girl, the list goes on.....

Online, just like anywhere else... three ioi's and close....

If I were in your situation.... Id of number closed her a little differently than most other closes.

After the "you live close" that was three ioi's:
- She messaged you first
- "you live close"
- she responded to your first messages


Rarely do I close like that. But chances are great she would have texted you.

EDIT:

I've mentioned how I usually number close, and it works good for me. But you're gonna need to search the forums. Already posted it at least two times.

I think she is more into having a F buddy then a relationship because she said shes "a no string attached girl"

So how can i convey that I am DTF also but create sexual tension through just email. I need to get her in a public place first so i can see if its the same girl then I need to find a way to get into thos draws... lol

Im pretty new to this shit i read a lot on PUA but ive only started this month. I've decided to change my social life when it comes to women..

PLEASE HELP How do i F close the Hb7-8???

Detailed answers are appreciated!!

I have never EVER failed using this...
After one or two messages having been back and forth, or she asks me any kind of question after the first email I say....

"Do you text? I kinda have a texting addiction... Its quite sad actually, I looked up every insurance plan, and the only cures known are cut off fingertips, or cut off cell service, but both are too severe a cure "

Hope this helps... im new.
its kinda a mix of a ton of stuff I have heard.

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The first date I had was ok... not what I expected, but I ended up eating like 20 of them while standing in whole foods
~ E.C.C.O. (Earth.Coincidence.Control.Officer)

^^^^ Copied. Thank You!

Please let me know your results!

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The first date I had was ok... not what I expected, but I ended up eating like 20 of them while standing in whole foods
~ E.C.C.O. (Earth.Coincidence.Control.Officer)

It's surprisingly easy how fast I #close. I am on pof and I've got 3 #closes this week and because it's not as hard as you thing I'll give you the three situations:

Nik4/2/2012 8:53:54 PM
hey hot pics, check out my profile I think you'll like it. If you're interested let's
chat!

her4/2/2012 8:55:52 PM
Haha! Helloo I've had a glance at your profile :)xx


Nik4/2/2012 8:57:41 PM
a glance ? did I scare you or u get too excited haha

her4/2/2012 8:59:10 PM
Nooo neither haha! Just cba SPAM, if I'm honest haha! I
will look tho I've seen your pickies tho :d xx


Nik4/2/2012 9:01:11 PM
I have an intuition about you bexie x

her4/2/2012 9:02:37 PM
What's that then lolx


Nik4/2/2012 9:03:20 PM
Can you keep secrets ?

Nik4/3/2012 3:52:52 AM
Here's my number XXXXXXXXXX
Shoot me yours hun

her4/4/2012 12:58:12 PM
S what secret! +44 XXXX XXXX


Second one:

Nik3/28/2012 6:01:04 AM
Let me be honest..I'm a 20 year old, single, white male from the Manchester area.. and
I'm looking for an older woman for casual hookups. You can take a look at my profile
and if you're interested, lets have a chat!

her3/28/2012 8:42:52 AM
Hi.oh i would love to.call me XXXXXXXX

Last one

Nikcstar4/1/2012 7:47:30 PM
Hello hot pics, check out my profile I think you'll like it. If you're interested let's
chat!

Ciao bunny

her4/1/2012 8:34:14 PM
Hey, nice pics too.
You know what you want don't you? Haha
How are you?
X


Nik4/1/2012 9:40:29 PM
Thank you. I'm fine but lonely...
Here's my number XXXXXXXXX
Shoot me yours hun

The 3rd one didn't give me her number instead she texted me ;]

1for 1 so far!

(opener omitted)

HB
funny part is, I honestly don't really remember my girst kiss that much.~chuckling~ a guy I had liked asked met o dance at a school dance, then we went outside and started to kiss and some heavy petting~chuckling~ I just remember it was a bit messy.~chuckling~

ME:
hhmm. I thought I was original.

Okay, a CS major, huh? Tell me about some of your 1337 uber hacker skills!


HB:
yeah a CS Major.~laughing~ I haven't did anything with Hacking since I was 18.~LOL~


ME:
That's no fun!

Wow! Just got finished with the laundry. Had my condo redone before I moved in, and had the "wash room" turned into a second bedroom/office room with a walk in closet. I'm kinda thinking this was a bad idea.... Though there is something to be said for being able to 3 washing machines at once... sitting around a public facility waiting for laundry is not too fun.

What kind of trouble are you out causing today?

BTW, my name is Bob.


HB:
yeah usually not having a washer and dryer does tend to be a pain in the butt. It's why I ended up finding a cheap washer and dryer for the place I just moved in to.

Stacy



ME:
Uhm... they had to take out the hookups. BUT my walkin closet (in my office) kicks ass! Increased the value of my condo, too. To qualify as a second bedroom it needed a closet. Damn technicalities!

Do you text, Stacy? I kinda have a texting addiction... Its quite sad actually, I looked up every insurance plan, and the only cures known are cut off fingertips, or cut off cell service, but both are too severe a cure


HB:
lol. I have the same addiction myself.~LOL~ my cellphone number is XXX-XXX-XXXX


Nice!

Screw messaging. I've just been sending this out. ;-/

I usually just say this. Before closing I get her name somewhere along the dialogue. I'll also make up a secret code word using something from our dialogue. So let's say her name is Becky and somewhere along the lines we talked about margaritas.

I'll say:

"
So do you text? Yes? Great!

"###-###-####/your name. Text me the word "margarita" so I know it's the REAL Becky".
"

That's it!