The girl

Beautifull girl I havnt seen in years that i saw for the first time a couple of weeks back and hooked up with her. After we hooked up she seemed to loose interest over our text and phone convo's and just plain doesnt seem interested any longer, probably wasn't the best idea to hook up with her so soon after my girlfriend and I broke up.

The dilema
I have her as an IM contact and everytime i see her under my news feed i just want to talk to her(it drives me nuts when she's not talking to me). i want to cut her off and carry on with the process of living my life but at the same time she hasnt been rude to me in any way and I dont want to loose her as friend ( yes i said it ). but i can already feel my emotional state is dependant on her approaval.

how do i approach this situation?

I want to move on and develope my inner game.

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True happiness comes from being exactly who you aspire to be

one more thing with this whole situation, the girls parents are family friends with my parents and her sister is having a wedding soon....

So basically what Im saying is I think I should completely cut off contact because it will be better for growth but at the same time I wanna know how to do it in a tactfull way.

Any advice will be appreciated

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True happiness comes from being exactly who you aspire to be

Be mutual to her while at the same time you are chasing other girls.
Give it time and she will find that you are showing less interest and that will intrigue her.

Don't focus on her.
Focus on other girls.

Then you win!